Parenting-The Corrupted System

i wouldn't really call myself a stoner, but i like the beatles. i mean i smoke, just not all the time. haha and i've never really gotten into floyd, zeppelin kicks ass though. i know what you mean about the "natural high" though man, to me listening to the allman brothers(when they still had duane) is almost spirtual

 

I know! whenever i say i get a natural high from music people look at me weird and/or call me a pussy haha. For more modern bands, Nine Inch Nails gives me that natural high too.

 

i wouldn't really call it a natural high, i just think music can be really liberating and powerful. and yeah, i guess it can kind of alter you a little bit. i like to just listen to music and kinda let my mind go where it will. and i know that sounds mad hippy but thats why i'm here haha.

i'm not much into nine inch nails either, lucero and the black keys are my favorite modern bands though and they definitely make my mind wonder haha.

 

yeah me too. i really like instrumentals to aid with day dreaming. i havent heard of them. ill give em a try.

 

Ah well, seems there is a poster or two on here who are but shit stains themselves...

It matters not how you are raised. Genetics are stronger. You will grow to be who you will grow to be, regardless. And parents most usually tell you things because they WORRY about you and you are not a baby any more (hopefully) so they can no longer hang on physically. But telling someone not to stick their hand in the fire is a bit different than laying down an enormous pile of rules and regs. "THIS IS MY HOUSE AND YOU WILL LIVE THIS WAY" is not exactly fair when you are a minor and you really cannot leave and live as you like. And I really don't get why any parent would want to hassle their kid so much that they would WANT to leave. Not unless they were a particularly horrible kid. SOMETIMES if a kid really thinks they have all the answers and has no respect for the fact they are living in a house with others, they NEED to get out and learn what real life is all about. And parents should STEP ASIDE and allow it. You gain a lot more respect for allowing your kids to be themselves and learn, maybe the hard way, and just be there with LOVE for if they fall down. Same as when they are little.

'Course, I'm not your run of the mill mom. I actually believe kids are pretty able to think for themselves if given half a chance. Maybe all those screaming parents and all those rules and regs are the thing that CAUSES shit stains.

 

for all the people that think you were a little pick as a teen. that becuase you prolly were. you dont understand why or how some of these children need some freedom. as a living thing its there life. parents should be there when needed to act as a window it can be open at the right times but when it storms then it can be closed. basically let them learn from there mistakes

Lawana Blackwell
Patterning your life around other's opinions is nothing more than slavery.

 

Wow. Well back to the very rude shit stain guy who likes to cuss people put on a forum for peaceful free speach. I've got nothing bad to say about you really, but I'm here to take all the verbal abuse u got. I've been respectful to my dad, (mom on other side of the country. She's nice and I'm lucky to have her as a mom) but my dad going to send me off to the army in 4 years when I turn 18 just cause I'm an all-peace, no-war type of person. So go ahead, tell me what a ungrateful, piece of shit, bastard, crappy ass child I am.

 

i may be wrong, but i don't think your parents can make you do anything when you turn 18, especially not join the army. if you don't want to join up, there's plenty of shit you can do to make the army not want you.

 

Thanks eggman, I'll have to prepare a cunning plan. I'm generaly a pacifist, and really just like when everyone just wants to relax. Peace!!!

 

"As I said, parents are the only people in life who will love you no matter who or what you become. And you only get two of em. They are also they ONLY people in the world who will let you live in their house and eat their food for free while you run around getting stoned with your friends for years. Respect em kids"

You are an ignorant to the reality that you reality cant be used as a template. Also that it does nothing but cause more problems for people to be called shit stains. I hope bad emotions to you, so that you change.....sure that makes alot of sense, if their a fucking dog. People have different experiences of parents - parents rape their children sometimes, beat them, hurt them emotionally daily, your commet will lead you into endless arguments and it is useless to try and help people with. It would be better, although I am not forcing this upon you, to just listen and then apply what you know, if the situation is similair to yours. Instead of acting like a religious zealot assuming thateveryon has the same experience, you adapt what you have learnt to another experience, albiet it, sometimes it wont be possible because it is simply to different.

Humans are so complex and experience multiple different lives. Learn this and you wont be as angry either. From my experience with my parents - they dont accept me for what and who I am. They cant, they do not understand the laws of thought and emotion, namely how their desires have been programmed into them. They also do not have the capacity to understand these thing nor the drive to. They are quite self-rightous but stay away from arguing with me, unless were alone, for fear of looking like a fool. Also, now that I have finished school university, they surely dont get into trying to lead my life.