Hey guys, just discovered this forum and had to join straight away. I was wondering if anyone has any advice on how to train my ass into taking anything more easily. Anal is a huge turn on and i love the idea of interesting penetrations but it always so hard to get my butt into the idea. My bf's dick always feels awesome, but it is such a trial getting it in their...Too tight. Hi All btw
1. They sell an anal training kit with sizers that gradually get bigger. 2. Buy alot of lube use both.
Hey i wish my bf was more like you.. he was an anal virgin when we met- as in never even thought of fucking anyone anally! I had to change that pretty fast, but to this day i am not sure if he does it to please me or whether he really likes it. It would be so awesome if he was as turned on as me. I have seen those kits online before. Always wondered if they actually work and how long do you have to fuck around with them to get results?
There are different sized butt plugs as well. From small to extra large and there are crazy sized as well. All available for pretty cheap. Lube is key to getting everything to work well. I know my wife and I will start with a plug in and have vaginal sex for a while first. Then move on to anal. It helps as well.
Fingers, vibrators, plugs, lube, and time are the things you need to get ready. Like iriegnome said, have some vaginal sex first to get warmed up and relaxed.
Dildos, and lots of lube. I can't stress the amount of lube enough. You definately don't want anything to rip while you're stretching it. Yeah, happened to me before...sucks. But, just get some dildos and use those. You'll be ready in no time. (;
Here is a short tutorial I typed up a while back. It's how *I* learned.. The key to this is to take your time and go slow. You learn how to control your butt and sphincter muscles. You learn how to RELAX THEM and you get used to the feeling of it all. Anal play for beginners Disclaimer: I am NOT a doctor and I do NOT play one on TV. This is the way *I* learned how to discover anal play. As usual care needs to be practiced. GO VERY SLOWLY. First start off with a TRIMMED index finger. You may even want to put on a latex glove first to help make it even smoother. Use KY or the drug store brand of KY and lube the finger well. Place it VERY GENTLY near the anus and lightly circle the hole with the finger. DON'T INSERT YET. Just circle it for a few minutes. After a few minutes without insert, just put the finger over the anus and gently press a bit without entering. Just apply a bit of pressure. Do this over and over a few times and after a few minutes SLOWLY begin to insert JUST THE FINGER *TIP* in about a quarter of an inch then take it out. Do this a few times then go a LITTLE further in. Repeat this until you have you whole finger in. DO NOT FORCE IT, IF HE OR SHE OR YOU SAYS STOP, STOP! Within a week or so of trying this the person should be fairly used to the finger and inserting and pumping it in and out should become easy. Also try moving the finger around while inserted, back & forth,etc. Orgasms ARE VERY VERY INTENSE when you leave your finger or butt plug or dildo in. Soon you will want to try something slightly bigger than your finger. Try your middle finger or graduate to a SMALL butt plug. Same rules apply to the new toy as did with the finger. Start off using the finger as usual then after getting loose begin with the plug. Plugs have flared bottoms to prevent them from going all the way in. If you graduate to dildos later get ones with a flared base or ones that have the balls at the bottom. This prevents them from slipping all the way in. You don't need a trip to the ER to retrieve it, that would SUCK! After a while you will become very used to anal play and you won't need much time to prep for your session. You'll loosen up very quickly after you learn how to relax your anal muscles. It takes me less than 5 minutes to go from start to riding a 8 inch silicon dildo like a bucking bronco! GITTYUP LITTLE DOGGIE! The key to learning anal play/sex is to TAKE YOUR TIME.
What I usually do is to touch sometimes my gf's ass when we make love, or during the foreplays, or after whatever... Sometimes she just feels open. Especially after love, when she's very messy and wet everywhere, we usually don't need lube, we just take our time and she just get open.
