*hugs* *hugs again* First of all, how anxiety-riddled do *you* see him as? Could any of this stem from being pushed too hard, or in the wrong way, in this school? or just plain separation anxiety? are there stressers in your life that are effecting your son? Second of all, I would also be PISSED OFF TO THE MAX if they had performed any tests outside the realm of why he was there in the first place, without my knowledge. They need permission for that, and they didn't have it. Third of all, be gentle with yourself and your baby boy, momma. Talk to him. It'll engage his speech more as well as a good way to get him to open up. See how you can alleviate his stress. Maybe he just doesn't like larger groups of people? Do you stay home? Could you teach him yourself? Try to figure out how best to engage him without causing him anxiety. *hugs again* You will figure this out, momma. Just drink a glass of wine and sleep on this. Tomorrow will bring clarity.
Legally, schools are allowed to administer tests without permission, but they need permission to start any type of services. I give tests all of the time...it is a major part of the job.
I have a lot of social anxiety, so I can relate. I provide social stories to kids who have anxiety. Try www.sandboxlearning.com . They are personalized coloring books for different life skills; such as, playing with other kids. These help my nephew who has autism.
ooops, it is www.sandboxlearning.ORG They don't work for every child. i'm glad to read that you've been trying a lot of different things. thanks for being a dedicated mama.
