Finding The One

So I just spent an amazing weekend with my amazing vietnamese girlriend. Sexy, beauitful, everybody likes her, 4.2 GPA....she is just amazing. She is 20 and I'm 19 and after this past weekend She left and now She is all I think about, like a piece of me is missing.

How do you know when you've meet the One Right Girl to Love for Life?

 

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poor u

 

How much was she? I might be looking for one of em now im working n all

 

There is no ONE... as humans we are meant to spread our seed

 

yeah marriage is built for fail..and if you love someone enough then you shouldnt feel insecure enough to have to have a piece of paper and a ring to keep you together. Way I see it anyway, I dont intend on getting married

 

its true...biology makes monogamy hard.

 

lol none of this is what the OP wanted to hear

i obviously don't know but i would say that you have to want to spend the rest of your life with this chick

 

You need to see how you feel 6 months, a year, 2 years. 10 years from now. As time passes, you won't have the same overwhelming feelings of a new relationship, but you will know the person better, and should have a good idea of whether the feelings are genuine.

Its true that biology causes urges that challege "the one" idea. However, IMHO, "the one" is both physically and emotionally satisfying. So, if, as time goes on, you continued to be emotionally and physically satisfied, you can be more and more sure that she is the one.

 

the thing is soul mates, in all proabability do not exist. there are many upon many compatable people for each of us, it just depends on other factors timing, where each of you are in your life. etc...

I agree with imaginepeace, monogamy isn't natural by human nature (even though some research tries to claim this only for the male populace, but i disagree and think it is true of both genders). however ive seen marriages work and prosper so i know two people can make it work if they want it to and if they truly love and respect one another.

how do you know if shes right? you stick with her. you date her and you let time reveal things to you. patience kid, and trust me expectations can definitely ruin relationships, so expecting her to be perfect isn't the best idea. Respect her and care for her and enjoy life (alone and with her) you are young dude in your prime...she might be the one you end up with for awhile, you may or may not marry her, but you like her a lot right now and thats all that should matter. the present.

good luck

 

LULz!

 

I think I was in love once.. She was Brazilian, or Chinese, or something weird. I met her in the bathroom of a K-Mart and we made out for hours. Then we parted ways, never to see each other again.

 

well if that isnt love i dont know what is

 

Go for it. Enjoy. Love it. Put your heart into it. You'll love looking back on these times when your older.

But realize that you are both young. You are both bound to change as you get older. And one of you will probably find that the person who they used to be very much in love with just isn't the same person anymore. Or the part of your life that your were looking for this person to fill has changed and they don't fill it anymore.

But maybe not. But just realize that it probably won't last.

But as I said-go for it. Live it. Put your heart into it.

And yea some of the comments were funny.

 

some of the wisest words to ever grace this message board.

 

A few shots of penicillin and all that was left was memories.

 

Watch out for her Tet Offensive sir, make sure she isn't charging through the jungle with her bayonet (or a penis)

Sounds like she is right for you right now, like people said only time will tell if that will remain true.

 

babe, stop talkin bout me on teh interwebz.

 

hahahah

 

I can't believe so many hippies here don't believe in love.