We enjoy a little bsdm at times which has spiced up our sex life. Sometimes my wife is really cruel and makes me masturbate myself while she tells me what to do and cheers me on, until I cum all over myself. It used to be the other way around. Does your s/o participate in your masturbation?
Mt g/f likes to lie back and read erotica for long periods while i caress and tongue her to orgasm ... we both love it that way