What does it feel like for a women to have an ORGASM ?

Woo first post.

Ok and it's going to be mildly epic. I'm going to explain, in as much 'clinical' detail as possible, what an orgasm feels like.
I have had in total four intense orgasms. All four took upwards of half an hour in time to reach, that includes foreplay and intercourse. Usually at least 20 mintues of cunnilingus (fingering, licking, also what helps bring me to orgasm quicker and more intense is to cum from clit stimulation). Consistently with all three the conditions required for me to have an intense orgasm were the same. The penetration was hard, fast and remained that way with no variation in speed and pressure for at least a minute to reach the almighty orgasm. Without hard and fast penetration, I don't have an intense orgasm basically. There have been times when I've been close to that orgasm but the guy has either stopped or slowed down and it's like having to start all over again.
First thing is I start breathing faster and shallower, sort of like the oxygen gradually gets cut off from my brain (my face gets all flushed etc). The feeling of the thrusts becomes overpowering really, and I lose all concentration on everything else, I can only concentrate on the feeling in my pussy, ALWAYS when I'm cumming I close my eyes. It's the only way I can focus properly. When I'm about to cum, I get very wet and my pussy gets tighter, almost as if its pushing out the cock/fingers lol (when that's happened it's almost brought my guy to the brink of orgasm because of the sensation of tightness on his cock). I think that's how you can tell if a woman is having an intense orgasm... they get uncrontrollable contractions in their poon hehe.
Cumming itself, it's just an overall sensation of warmth circulating throughout my entire body, a wave of warmth and electricity, and the poon area is also intensely warm and tingly almost. Up until the orgasm itself I don't make much noise but I tend to moan and pant etc when I cum. Once I shouted "Fuuuuck!" lol. It's such an intense feeling, my whole body quivers, my limbs shake. Sometimes my leg flinches or my fingers flinch. I also tend to grab onto any skin on my guy as well and just clench it to keep myself under control. For me an intense orgasm lasts for 10 seconds. After which the intensity subsides and I just feel the warm wetness down there, my breathing returns to normal gradually. I have a really high heart rate and can hear my heartbeat in my ears. My whole body just feels entirely relaxed, all the tension in my muscles disappear and I regain my focus/open my eyes etc and notice everything around me.
That's pretty much what happens with an intense orgasm, lol! For me anyway. After I've reached orgasm like that I just smile a lot, sometimes I giggle. It makes you want to laugh/sigh etc because it's an extreme feeling of release, it's awesome really.
Sometimes I have milder orgasms, ones that don't necessarily reach a precise 'point' of release but rather it just ripples, continuous warmth and wetness, but they are less noticable and I sometimes can't tell If i'm orgasming or not.
Oh, and to add, you know you hear how women feel like they need to pee during sex? well, that right there is g spot. And I forgot to mention that this feeling of needing to pee and giving into the sensation was what gave me the intense orgasms. I think that's why many women do not have these types of orgasms, because they are afraid that they'll pee all over the guy. But if you just let go and let it happen you do have the most amazing orgasm like I described. I'm pretty sure that some kind of liquid comes out (female ejac) because that would explain the added wetness after having had one.
So yeah, that's pretty much all I can say.

Oh, but one last thing.
'Love' has nothing to do with it.

 

Wow !!!

This place was starting to become the place that time forgot.

Thanks for having the courage to reply, its nice to hear from another women that has had the "real thing" I wish it was more common so everbody could experience the real thing first hand and tell others how they achieved it.

Sadly I have not been able to re-experience what I did many moons ago.

Still I guess one never knows what the future may hold.

 

but why? how would any words allow understanding of it?

the electric water thing is really scary. eletricute me in water why dont you. I could die instantly.

its feels the same as it does for guys, trust me, basically. your genital organs feel nice and soft and pleasurable thats the bottom line


it is hard to describe it really is. its like , smooth, and soft, and wonderful, and majic,. everything comes alive. you are focused on being alive, and your body is envigorated and pleasured all over

for me, actually it feels soft and nice all over my lower body, i dont really notice my genitals, its more of a feeling of a soft pillow, kind of thing. also me and girls love to use soft blanket pillows that are , super soft. i call it the super soft blanket. its a thicjk blanket , man made amazing i dont know how they can make it so soft and thick and full, its a blanket its the best for sex ever beats any hand job any intercourse ever. with intercourse combined me and the girls i tested it on, just go out of your mind how incredible it is. its best to go slow and soft , not to overdo the pleasure. its gets extreme and i dont think its healthy that much. just slow and smooth and take time, and get back to work , and forget about it, because you wil be so addicted that you just cant go to school or work any more. thats the dangers of drugs or sex. its true.

from now on, just weekends, and maybe wednesdays for me cause it gets to be too much

just how far down this rabbit hole do i want to go... um, balance is the key.

everything normal in your life, work and rest and back to work is the way for me

love, m

 

what ??? 30 minutes to orgasm.

me, i dont orgasm or not porgasm the entire experience is one smoothe orgasm always, soft and nice and it just continues.

for guys, to get it like that , you must remember, not to ejaculate. for at least a week,
then you or girl with you, stimulate, and get sex going, then take it slow as it gets better and better, and do not ejaculate . come close, and rest, then rest, relax, then start up again as yuor dick is tiny and starts getting turned on again, and come close again, and rest again. repeat. after a while of doing this, maybe 7 times, then the orgasm stays with you even when your dick is tiny , and it just goes forever like that. sure then it gets so good that you just have to come a little, and then rest again, then its so good you are unbelieving its real, then you rest, and get up goto school or work, and dont ejaculate then it will be ready for you to continue more later. and you'll be real happy at work and after work with anticipation of getting back to bed.

pretty good, huh?

 

it takes dedication, and practice, and if you are not turned on, it wont work. i mean mentally turned on

 

see what she said. love has nothing to do with it.

its practice ,its not mental its not love. its a physical exercise. that girl is just like lutomoria. same age too. drawing looks like ash too. smart funny sex girl.

i want a few more of them. not just one,. at least two. the way she wrote . wow so fast and all together. great work, you.

you did it . yay. happy giggle.

 

woooo ! first post !

land that time forgot. land of the lost

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many "thank you's" to user: "love hate love"

for that amazing post. that describes all kinds of good stuff about what to do

 

When I'm mastrubating by hand, it's simpler to describe:

The 'horniness', sweetnes in my clit, crotch area, has usually already started-it immediately increases in intensity when I begin to rub my clit, which, if it's not already swollen, gets harder and the ache is more swweet as I start rubbing. The movement of the hood over the swollen knob is very pleasurable, and must be constant and monotonous for me to leave the 'plateau' phase, which is pretty much at the same level, and begin to rise toward orgasm. As the rise starts, my breathing gets heavier, deeper and faster, the sweet throb in my clit, crotch area, and vagina increases steadily, my nipples harden and throb, and then I reach the 'point of no return' (which I can back off of and make to go down, staving off the orgasm, if I want). When I reach the 'point of no return', the pleasure is incredibly, unbearably strong, my legs go tight together (always) my eyes involuntarily shut, I see stars, and I absolutely have to scream because the pleasure is too intense. The pleasure goes on and on for about 10 seconds, sometimes I feel rippling in my vagina (which by now is very wet), and then th pleasure begins to slowly go down, until my muscles become flacid, and then I rest.

If I'm not able to scream, because my parents are too close by and they might hear, then I have to braethe very deeply and very fast to avoid a scream coming out of my throat, but it's very difficult to do, and there's always some noise from my vocal cords anyway.

 

And also, if I masturbate myself very quickly, without allowing for much of a buildup, or if I'm not really horny when I start, I come, but it's not nearly as strong, and I don't scream (or need to), merely saying 'ahhhh', or something indicating satisfaction. It gives me kind of a 'missed' feeling, however, as if the orgasms could have been stronger, but wasn't, and sometimes the orgasm even hurts some.

 

Hmm two most interesting posts !!!

Big thanks to both of you.

For a guy the difference between masturbation and being on the end of a girls\womans orgasm is very different.

Physical contact with another person is so important, as is penetration without a condom.

I think it must be the excitement of maybe getting pregnant and the caressing with ones hands I have found is important.

I read some where that rhesus monkeys can go without food for some time but it needs physical contact to keep it alive.

I think the physical contact is so important as is the gentleness of constant caressing.

I guess it is no easy task for a women to find the "right" mate, meaning some one that genuinly cares and is compatible with each another.

If you do find Mr Right or Miss Right then all you have to do is make sure the foreplay is really good, kissing ( understand something about kissing it tells you alot about the other person ( like Cher sings in her song (" Its in his kiss..." this is where you can feel the passion or lack of it!!!).

Does he kiss you gently with care ?

If you're a guy never under estimate the power of a kiss, it really is a turn on for a women/guy if you know how to do it correctly.

Rough kissing no good, probably means he'll be like that when you are in bed.

Spend lots of time on the foreplay, caressing with your gentle soft hands for hours on end pays off big time.

I think one should never plan on penetration, keep the foreplay going if it gets her wet between the legs she's getting aroused if not something is wrong.

If you think your technique is good then it may be some other factor, is she tired ?

If she's tired let her sleep and wait for the morning to caress her again just keep caressing her entire body, over and over and over again.

Look for the goose bumps on her skin that means its working, also things like erect nipples can indicate arousal level.

Once you get her body sweaty ( this is not caused by physical exertion, the body switches the sweat on to help you make love to her) then you are very close to the "threshold of orgasm" its at this point a women needs to then allow her partner to enter her vagina which like her body will be very wet and slippery.

A womens heart will at this stage be beating very fast 200+ per minute.

Keep the foreplay going by caressing her continuously ( women on the [dominant position] top ) behind the legs, between the legs, front of her legs, then the sides or her torso, slide your hands gently up and down her back (this is where the sweat helps) you can even lick her nipples with your tongue, you should see her skin get excited with raised "goosebumps" she'll know shes close to orgasm and thats when you should enter her.

The guy will be more than aroused your balls are going to be burning with almost pain, because your highly aroused state.

Still don't go in until she tells you to, then when she gives you the ok, gently slide in and do what natures tells you to do.

You may have noticed what some crudely call a "fanny fart" this is just air being expelled out of the vagina because the vagina barrel is starting to balloon, natures way of creating a vacuum, which will fasttrack your sperm into her cervix.

If your the guy you'll start to feel her vagina contract around your cock which may really freak you out - trust me - just go with it !!! Its like your in the cock pit of the space shuttle, and the hydrogen peroxide and oxygen have just been ignited !!!!

You start to feel her vagina getting tighter and tighter and the intense pleasure will be more than you are able to handle !!!

She'll be sliding up and down on your extremely wet and slippery torso ....

As she orgasms, you then feel her keegal muscles spasm around your slippery cock !!!

Your "knob" will feel like its penetrating into an empty space "ballooned" area at the end of her vaginal barrel, its this ridge making contact with the underside of your corona that is intensely pleasurable.

Lift off !!!

This is when you'll ejaculate and your own highly charged and overwhelming pleasure will be just too much for you to bear !!!

I don't remember much about what happened after my own ejaculation, which I find strange ?

Finally you'll wake up feeling totally rested, it'll be so quiet and then you'll understand what I mean, if its cold in the room you'll notice the steam coming of your bodies, and all those natural opiates making you feel as high as a kite !!!

... enjoy !!!

 

well damn...

 

WOW!!!!!!
this is such a Turn-ON reading this.

I was at a hotel on vacation last week and for for the first time used a hand held shower head directly on my hardon and balls.........i had no idea it would feel sooooooo goood!!!!!! Amazing!!!!!!

Please..........others share!


pm me anytime!

 

When you say you close your eyes, becase that is the only way you can orgasm.

Does other negative thoughts come into your mind prior to the onset of orgasm, I'm wondering what causes the curtailing of a womans orgasm ?

What kinds of thoughts are in your mind at the onset of orgasm ?

I guess your bf is very understanding and sensitive, am I right ?

 

i wish i could know what it's like to orgasm like a girl.. i get so jealous every time my girl cums over and over again. the most i ever came was twice in a row within seconds and 7 times in a night. venus envy sucks.. i don't understand you guys who don't seem to care... you girls are so lucky

 

Don't get jealous - you can improve your own experience if you learn how to achieve orgasm for her, if you're already there you just need to be inside of her.

You'll know when you have reached the threshold of her orgasm when her vaginal muscles start to spasmodically and involuntarily contract - that is what will send you into your own very amazing sexual peak.

If you read what I have learnt and can keep caressing her until she reaches orgasm you'll know what I mean.

Allow her to fall asleep just keep ever so gently caressing her, caressing is not rubbing or grinding its as gentle as the wings of a butterfly across the billions of skins cells of her body, your hands should glide over her body front, back and sides of her legs, gentle swirls and circles, just keep doing that over and over again.

When your arms get tired switch over and use your other hands ...

Initially don't hone in on the genitals, let her know that you are a very considerate guy, that is more interested in her gratifaction than your own.

Run your fingers through her hair it needs to be very clean otherwise your fingers will be caught in her hair, very very gentley almost like scratching ( like you have a round ball in your hands ) drag your fingers nails over her scalp, rember its very gentle and not the least bit uncomfortable ...

This excites the skin and feels relaxing.

Then maybe do her earlobes people are very sensitve around the ears so very gently stroke her ears with your fingers look at her skin it should cause goose bumps to appear.

You may even notice her nipples get hard and erect thats means its working affectivley.

Gentleness is the key ...

With her mouth closed kiss her mouth gentely by lowering your own mouth over hers - do it very slowly - she must notice your aura decending over her mouth and around her.

When you lips contact you should be hardly moving then you open your mouth over hers and push your tongue between her lips gentley you can gently bite her upper lip or lower lip

Then open your mouth again like your hungry but controlled not letting yourself savour her but letting her know your so hungry for her the air from your nostrils should tickle her face very subtly

Pretend your eating a juicy and fleshy peach and your enjoying the taste of it ...

And again keep caressing her legs (inner and outer legs, tummy, back, sides of her torso, last but not least breasts, and vulva) making sure you dont spend too much time on the vulva.

IF you start to notice sweat over her body your making really good progress.

So now you can see or understand the threshhold of orgasm, its teasing the body untill it cannot hold back the orgasm.

So foreplay is like pulling the string of a bow back, the orgasm, the release of the arrow.

Sweat and female juices brought on by the buildup of sexual tension is the way the body prepares for orgasm, so when shes drippin wet and your testicles are achin' from lovers balls you'll know that your ready to mount her.

The truth is its only her that knows that she is at the gates of orgasm so she must tell you when to mount her and not before.

If she knows when to allow you in you'll both orgasm at the same time, its her orgasm that light lights your powder keg.

If you do manage to get it right through trial and error, and you do get to those gates don't worry about the way her vagina grips your cock and starts to rythmically and spasmodically spasm, it'll send you through the roof, you may be horrified by what is happening to you but dont let it worry you.

Just go with it and enjoy the ride !!!

It'll blow your mind !!!

 

hope this helps

 

I wondered why you started to giggle ?

Is it because of your age ?

Some of my earlier experiences that were mild in comparison to that last big and incredible experience that I was fortunate to experience sound very much like what you have experienced.

Which is kinda interesting, because the intensity of orgasm can obviously be more powerful depending on the length of foreplay.

So the more foreplay, the more intense is the orgasm for the women.

I noticed my earlier partner top lip was sweaty and she (guessing) lite perspiration all over her body, with the later more powerful orgasm both of us were drenched in sweat it was like being inside a womb we were that wet.

Thanks for replying.

 

When I had sex first time.. my girl friend got orgasm 6 times.. I watched her face during 2 of her orgasm while fingering..juice was just flowing out from her pussy like anything infact it came out like a fountain.. so much of pressure was built inside her.. her face was red and breast and clit became big.I was surprised, I guess she gets much more pleasure than me and thats too several times within a single session.. I envy that.

 

I think you can get to a higher level of sexual pleasure if you try, orgasm isn't easy but its not impossilbe either.