Sexual fantasy is taking over my life . . .

I confess that i love most all women. I'm a forty-something guy, married for many years and have kids. YET . . . I spend most of my time thinking about having sex with other women. I see women in convenience stores, offices and even church and find myself fantasizing about having sex with them. I see college girls with low-waisted jeans and tattoos and dream about what it must be like to have sex with them. I fantasize about fat women, skinny women, tan women and pale ones.

It just seems so cruel that we marry and go on with our lives, never able to touch or have sex with another person as long as we stay married. But I don't want a divorce. I just want to experience the thrill of seeing different women. I want a blow job.

For the record, I love my wife and she's rather frigid. But even if she was putting out daily, I would still want to have a threesome with some young, nubile college girls.

If she felt the same way, I would understand completely. The only difference is that she could probably have a different guy in a heartbeat.

Sigh . . . life is unfair sometimes.

 

...very unfair!

 

....Welcome to life.

 

You're right of course, but that doesn't make it any easier now, does it!!

I just wonder how many women realize the effect and what they do when they know an older guy really appreciates them.

 

Pssst...wanna know a secret? Women don't give a fuck...

 

Thanks, Funhogg. That seems to confirm what I've suspected all along.

 

lol, I'd laugh if your fuckin' wife viewed your computers history and found this.

 

if she PUT OUT daily......?

How romantic of you !!!!
I can tell you right now that if she knows thats how you view her role in yalls sexual relationship , that will make her NOT WANT TO , its just a female thing. Just because yall been together so long doesnt mean you dont have to still treat her like you are courting her , and have a little delicasy about sexual matters , and what role she plays.
And how come SEX is so important anyway....what about affection and love and being thankfull you have someone that has stayed with you all these years and loves you ?

just a silly womans point of view.

 

Hey man it's not like your Gene Simmons, your not just gonna walk down the street and have some hot young girl run up and fuck you lol.

 

Originally Posted by monkedup

It just seems so cruel that we marry and go on with our lives, never able to touch or have sex with another person as long as we stay married

You promised her that when you married her , what did you think those vows were ?
You make being married sound like a punishment , maybe your attitude has something to do with her not wanting to make love to you anymore ?
If my partner shared your attitude , it would be a total turn off to me , and she would end up ALONE !

 

Can't you jack-off in the shower and do whatever your wife says like most faithful married men.

 

young slutty college girls get off on knowing older guys are checking them out. Whether they admit it or not. The whole monogamy issue is a hard one, try getting closer to your wife and focusing on her sexual and emotional needs and you might just bring out the kinky side in her. I have awesome more than daily sex with my boyfriend and it doesn't stop me fantasising about every second guy I see, some people are just like it and it won't change