ok so i am in my first year at college and the odd thing about college or i guess what makes it different from hs is that every one isint around the same age so its an adjustment. ok so any way there is this guy whos like ten years older than me and he has liek a kid and stuff he has been divorced and hes just alot more mature than i. alright so when i first met him he gave off a strange vibe, but i figured i was being silly and i hung out with him any way. so now he hints at stuff but i never read into it untill this weekend when he called me and was like oh im bored come hang with me innocent enough but i couldnt he got all pissy and then i was all why dont you just go to a gay bar and have some fun and hes goes oh i have a gf so i say yeah it was joke i dont think you would have fun at one any way and then he says oh i have done some stuff i was in the millitary. so im like what does that mean he says oh u know what it means. i hung up cause i was about to take a bubble bath, but this morning he messages me all liek talking to me like im some girl he met at a bar the night before. so anyway hes a cool enough guy but i dont wanna fuck him. should i just play dumb and act liek i dont see what hes trying to do, or am i reading too much into it?
hmm, so are you str8, gay, bi? tell him you'd rather be friends as you are more interested in people within your age range. if you're str8 then tell him you aren't interested in going that route..
i guess im bi i really dont lable myself because if im in a relationship with a guy im gay but if i meet a girl i like and then we are in a relationship then i would consider myself str8. but yeah i should just tell him im not interested