You are 40 years and u find out :

you are pregnant.. your oldest is 18 , your youngest is 6 .... an 8 year old in between....


do you giggle nervously or cry uncontrollably ? .

 

Well this will probably be one of your last chances to have a baby if you decide to keep tha baby. Hope HE is healthy when he arrives.

 

those are both weird reactions. some people have babies at 40

 

my mom had me at 41, my dad's oldest is 49

 

Is BOTH an option?

Congratulations & good luck!

 

my mom had me when she was 37,, at the time her oldest was 18, the youngest 2 1/2 and an inbetweener at 7 =]

 

personally, i'd cry because i really don't want kids. i'd never bring another life into this shithole...at least not right now...i mean, the earth is beautiful, but conditions...and everything else is so horrible. i wouldn't do that to anyone i loved.

but you, i don't know, if i were in your shoes i'd be glad...i mean, at least you have younger ones in the household that will be there to help you as the kid grows. shit, they're probably dying to help mommy.

i'm the youngest of two. my older sister is 28. i'm 18. we were supposed to have two brothers, one in 1984 and another in 1986, but the first one was a miscarriage and the second was a still born. my family calls me the miracle baby, i was a premie and they weren't sure if i was going to live. =/ so...yeah, i think i'm out of stories today.

congratulations. i'm sure she/he will be a beautiful, healthy baby. =]

 

my mom was 43 when she had my baby brother. i was 15 when he was born, my oldest brother was already married and had a child. take care of yourself. i love my baby bro.

 

not to worry, these words were probably spoken by every marginally aware teen since the late twentieth century. odds are you'll swing back around to realizing the world isn't actually all that bad.

 

I'd cry at any age. I love kids, but they are too much work.

 

My wife had our last two when she was 41 and the youngest was born on her 44th birthday. Our other kids were spread from 8 to 20 y/o.

Depends on what you want, but I think you could be very happy about it.

Though realizing we will be into our 60's when the youngest finishes highschool is somewhat sobering.

Best of luck to you!

 

i lost the baby... its been a hard few days.. i was only in my first trimester.. i cant stop crying, thanks everyone for chatting w me. ill come back and post when i am feeling stronger.

w love mama

 

I'm so sorry.

 

thank u.. honest and true ty.

 

Very sorry to hear hun, take care of yourself.

 

{{{Hugs}}} mama, I am so very sorry.

 

breeder . start reading a fucking thread



Im sorry about your lost darlin my luck and love to you!

 

thanks Dolly, .... its been a long traumatic few weeks.. ive had the radio up loud for days.. screaming inside.. a whole lot of Stone Sour playing.. Black Flag, Suicidal Tendencies ..head phones help. i have been shutting out life and laying on the sofa... smokin herbs and drinking wine..

im reeling w pain actually. not even tattoos are helping, and usually a long tattoo session eases my pain..

im going to get a tattoo to for the loss of the baby though, i think a beautiful moth.. wings spread wide..

thanks for the love hun .. honest i do appreciate it.

 

Its the most difficult thing to go through. In the end, it makes you a stronger person. I would look at your kids and smile knowing that they will always be around. Im sure you do though. A tattoo might help knowing you can always look and be reminded that the baby is there