My girlfriend and I were "virgins" when we first did it, well she said she was. I was deffinantly. But After about 3-4 months of having sex there still was no blood from the "cherry" and then towards the end of the 4 months she bled. Is there a difference from it being a cherry or being ripped??
sometimes if you are active as a young girl your cherry pops its self. that happened with me because i was a dancer
Oh the blood thing. I don't think that happens to many woman, and if it was going to happen it wouldn't happen four months later.
ive heard if some girls get into accidents it can pop- forgot where i read some girl as a kid fell down on her bike and it popped--crazy she got deflowered by a bike
you are lucky.you have sexual experience ,because i am 22 but i have no sexual experience .HOw i can get it ?????F1 F1 F1 me
Yep.. mine popped from getting kicked (HARD) in the crotch during a bitch fight when I was 10. Doesn't mean I lost my virginity to a shoe. It's all good.
Why are you worrying about it? Would you be sad/mad if you weren't her first? Virginity was important a hundred years ago, but I don't think anyone but sadly possessive partners (mostly male) think about it any more. You might ask yourself if jealousy is a problem for you. Be honest now! If it is, talk to a counselor about it. Quick, before you screw up your whole life. Jealousy (possessiveness) is the number one relationship breaker. It can also lead to bad happenings. Really bad. On the other hand, if she's cute, willing and all yours - who cares where she was a year ago! Be thankful.
It sort of does, heh To be fair I only staggered into this thread to just say anything. By inspection I noticed it had a mere 10 replies, to over 1,000 views. Say's it all about the human condition doesn't it?
well, her cherry could have popped a long time before you guys got together. I was a virgin and there was no blood my first time, i actually know exactly when i popped mine. it was doing nothing sexual, it was in gym. i thought i had my period. but didnt. anyways, I did however bleed several times into my sexual life, why, im not exactly sure, but theres a lot of reasons, it could be you werent doing it right until then, could be it was a tough cherry to pop, could be she just bled, and her cherry been popped(not b/c she wasnt a virgin) you just have to trust what she says, and trust her to know her body. if you ripped something, she should know.
