I need anal sex advice preferably from women

My girlfriend has told me that she has tried anal sex once and hated it, with a previous boyfriend, saying she would never do it again. She said he just jammed it in, no lube, no warming it up with a finger or anything, causing her pain. However, I have become more interested in trying it with her lately. We have been expanding our sex life recently, constantly trying new things. We have sex 1-3 times a day, we live together during the school year, (we are in college). She knows i love her and her ass and she says she loves showing it off while having sex, she said that when we do 69 she feels so sexy. To get to the point, when the conversation comes up with friends she still says she would never do it agian. But lately i have been flirting with it a little while we have sex, my hand near her asshole constantly, i bring the wetness from her vagina up to her ass and play around, sticking my finger in no more than a fingertips worth in, but i swear she leans into it a little, but i am not sure enough that i would risk going further. She says that she does things with me that she wouldnt and hasnt done with any other guy (other than anal play) and that i make her feel completely beautiful and comfortable. She had had an orgasm twice in her life before me, but that she now has them constantly, to the point that she is surprised and upset when she doesnt get one. WHAT SHOULD I DO, DOES IT SEEM LIKE I SHOULD GO FOR IT AND THAT SHE IS INTERESTED, OR SHOULD I STOP FLIRTING WITH THE IDEA? ps. i also swear she gets wetter when i bring my finger up from her vagina to her ass while we are having sex. It seems to me like i have a good chance and go for it, but i would be so embarrased and feel so bad/dumb if she responded baldy... HELP!!!!

 

just talk to her about it again........... because if you just stick it in there, she is probably gonna be pissed

 

just to clarify... i wouldnt just stick in in there, cuz i know how pissed i would be if that happened to me... im just saying that she always tells me to grab her ass while we have sex because it helps her orgasm more... and lately i had been holding her ass more near her asshole, and starting playing more in the area, circles with my finger and what not

 

just talk about it. my girlfriend had the same experience with her ex and she said it was the 1 thing she would never do again, but we talked about it and she decided that she would like to try it again and at the moment im just working on loosening it up with my finger. the crazy thing is that she loves it! dont pressure her into it though, if she says no you got to make sure you leave it @ that because @ the end of the day its her body.

 

I have actually never talked about it to her in private, its only come up when we have been with friends and they bring it up, and i am in college so that occurs a lot lol. But she is always so admit about not doing it again. but like i said i am almost positive that when i get near her asshole she instantly gets more wet and leans into it the slightest bit, but has never said anything, good nor bad afterwords. But since she is so adimit about how much she hated it and and is unwilling to try it again when we talk to our friends, and these where our college dorm-mates so we talk about everything, that i feel like she would have the same reaction if i brought it up in private, and i dont want to have that embarrassed dumbass feeling afterword and have her be weirded out... and to reinterate... i would never try it without asking her first

 

Include ass licking in your oral play, gently slide a well-lubed finger in there while licking her clit. If that goes well, try 2 fingers, etc. If she is aroused by these, suggest the next logical step.

Markus

 

any more suggestions? seems like i will only get a comment if the post is on top... hence this... THANK YOU

 

talk to her about it. continue making her feel beautiful and important in the matter. that is what my husband did to me and i love it now.