I gotta vent about my ex...I hate f'ing relationships!!!!

Man, I just found out that my ex lied to me about everything as to why she is breaking up with me. She said she wanted time alone, and to just hang with her friends and have fun til she had time for a relationship. Then came this problme with her immune system where she can't have sex supposedly for a year or two. Tonight her little bro who is a good friend of mine told me she is dating this guy who is in her little clique of friends, and they got together the day she broke up wth me for the second time, before she told me it was over. She has lied to me so many times over. And to so many people. I had a really good chance with this one girl, and then she found out I was "the guy" that fucked over my ex, and now she won't talk to me. I haven't done shit. I treated my ex like the world, I did everything for her, we had a perfect relationship. And now all this. The bitch fucked up the last year of my life, and all I got out of it was a smaller bank account and a broken heart and reputation, and it is all LIES! I fucking hate her. I am going over tomorrow, I am still a legal resident of her address for two more weeks, I am getting all my shit back, taking my lawyer with me to write a bill for every penny I ever gave her, and I am gonna visit her new boyfriend, he is an old friend of mine. I am gonna tell him all this shit that she did. I just got off the phone with her now ex- best friend, who took all of my exes belonging that were at her apartment and threw them in the courtyard. She is going to tell all of her friends what happened. I also have to cancel payment tomorrow on the check I wrote to cover the bill to get her car fixed, so she will be owing about 800 bucks to the car garage come next week. And I have seen her bank account, it ain't gonna be pretty. Ya know, I am not a mean person, and I am very patient. But if you do get on my bad side, you start a fucking holocaust for yourself. She is the second person ever in my life to do this, and she is royally fucked. That bitch. <Insert long evil laugh.......>

 

Sorry to hear that bro. Sometimes people can be fucking evil.

 

Wow, that is freaking horrible. I'm sorry that happened and such. She will get whats coming to her..
I dated someone whom totally lied and manipulated me and stole from me. He got what was comin to him, big time.
But again, I am sorry...People suck ass...

 

Ugghh, what a piece of work. I'm sorry that you're going through that crap. You have every right to call her a bitch.

Don't let it taint your view on relationships though. They're not all like that. I don't know you, and I don't know your history with previous relationships, but somewhere there is someone out there who will rock your world.

Much peace, love, and happiness.

 

It sounds like she's wanted to break away from you for awhile and didn't know how. Most of the time when women use the excuse of I want to be alone and find myself it's because they're afraid of the guys reaction if they tell him the truth. Just let it go. I am sorry but everything you are saying she did is here say and you haven't witnessed it first hand. Just because a girl decides she doesn't want to be with you anymore doesn't make her a bitch. Go get your stuff back but don't degrade yourself by talking to her new bf just let it go.

 

Well, if she wante to break away, would she still have asked me to marry her? We were engaged! I have set everything into motion. Her boyfriend broke up with er today, and she owes me about 1200 bucks. I am ebaying the engagement ring, and her crap she left at my house. I love getting revenge sometimes. This is so unlike me but so very sweet.

 

Some people can be malicious..
I wouldnt do that with her stuff though just because she would probably try to take you to court or something, ya know you see stuff like that on Judge Judy all the time. Where they want there stuff back and such..

 

Wow im real sorry... Yeah relasionships sometimes arent to fun

 

There are two sides to every story and in my past experiences when an ex has made everyone think I am heartless my side of the story is never represented. Don't sell her stuff that's just fucked up. Just try and work something out with her so she can pay you back. Sometimes if you are reasonable that works the best.

 

But I can't be reasonable, that is all that I have tried. She is continuing to lie to my face. I boxed all of her crap up, she is not home now but her bro is. I am going to get my shit and and leave hers there. I never did anything wrong to her, I wsa too nice and forgiving if anything. I should have never let this get so far out of hand. I just want someone that treats me like a human being; respects me, cares about me, and loves me like I do them. I tried so hard to work trhis out with her somehow, but all she did was avoid the problems and run away fro them or lie about them. Arrgghhh....

 

Aye, they can be painful.

 

i broke up with my ex 2 days before my birthday which was last week and she gave me a similar excuse. She said she needed more time to hang around with her friends, she needed time for college and stuff and wanted a break . I think the excuse she gave me is bullshit and when i ask her to tell me the real reason she always says she have been honest with me so i dont know what to believe.

 

Im sorry to hear that she fucked your life up royally. but look on the bright side at least you can start anew and be single for when you find that perfect girl for you. Well with what you have said I think it was cruel of her to thrash your name and lying also. maybe if you catch her on a lie shell be willing to tell you the truth or maybe tell her that you know that she lies and that you would appreciate the truth for once cuz you deserve the truth after all the shit she did put you throught and did to you. I hope the best for you hun.
*HUGS*
*KISSES*
Fallen Fairy

 

I w2as on my front porch at 3:30 this morning, and suddenly, I realized something good did come of all of the sht I went through with her. I have a wonderful cat that loves me and needs me, and she is the best cat ever! My ex gave her to me. Instead of ebaying the ring, I snmashed the diamond today at work, melted the gold down, and sprinled the diamond in it, and made a cool little necklace pendant, The ingot with chunks of diamond is a great metaphor for the whole deal.

 

go man i hear ya fuck that bitch over thats what she deserves she thought she could come out of it smelling like roses and u smelling like chicken shit now u get to put the truth out and let everybody know just how she is and what all she's done if u need help let me know ill c what i can do man ive had the same shit happen to me over and over and over its like women think all men are players but for the good ones out here that treat them with respect they treat us like shit but i can tellu this i have found a good one so dont stop looking bc there is good ones out there,they're just hard to find
if u need help on something post it or u can im me ill help and im sure alot of guys would tooo!!!!!!!!!

 

hey , least you're not bitter !

 

*bitch* *bitch*
*moan* *moan*

I've about had enough.

You should try having social anxiety, then lets see how much you cry you fucking tease. =/

 

im sorry to hear man, that's rough. that's bullshit too. congrats for giving that succubus what it had coming. *sigh. damn it all

 

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Well, I have mental issues too, but that isn't what we are talking about here. Anyway, I met a really nice girl tonight, we are going to a conceret tomorrow night, things are looking up!