HELP! - Unique problem with Erectile Dysfunction

Hey,

I have a fairly odd problem. I've been with my girlfriend for a few months now, and we have had some great sex. When my penis is erect and I am inside her I never have any problems keeping it hard, nor do I have problems with premature ejaculation. In fact, when I am having sex I can last unusually long and most of the time I do not even get to finish because I do so many kegel exercises.

However, whenever I pull it out of her to either put on a condom or drastically shift in positioning I tend to lose my erection. It is not like it immediately goes limp right when I pull it out, but if I pull out to grab a condom and put it on, by the time I move to begin having sex again, a lot of the times I would have lost the erection. Same thing happened when I drastically change positions.

Realizing this, I found that I was only able to put on a condom without losing my erection when I reached for and opened the condom while i was having sex with her. I then pulled out, put it on and kept going.

What exactly is wrong? If I am already having sex with her I have no problem with premature ejaculation OR erectile dysfunction.

 

Going to sound like a bitch here, but how tight is your girlfriend.

 

pretty damn tight, it hurts her when I go in for the first time when we have sex without lube.


help anyone?

 

helppppp

 

It's probably some kind of mental block you've set up for yourself, if you think it's going to happen then it does.

 

so how do I fix this?

 

Get good at changing positions while staying inside of her. Put the condom on first. For guys it may be that when you were inside her bare, realizing you had to put a condom on made Mr. Winky sad.

 

if you come out and it start to go soft, then just relax with your girl for a while, mess around,take a break, after a while, maybe ask your girl to do some thing to you that you no will get you going again

 

I had a different idea. Have you ever tried kegel excercises? It can work on boys too, there is medical research suggesting that kegel excercises in men increase the strength of their cocks when erect and help fight ED.

 

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It is definitely mental anxiety. You're worried it will happen, so it does. Discuss this with your partner, and explain the anxiety. If she reassures you she will do what it takes to get you going again, you'll stop worrying, and the problem should go away.

 

It's not that unique of a problem - the same thing happens to me sometimes. Erection goes away easily but it also comes back easily. Relax and think about something arousing (like the fact you are about to stick it back in her) and it should respond. Also you can get her to help you by lightly stroking your cock and balls, that usually gets mine right back at attention.

 

Can she go on the pill?

 

Walk around with and erection 24/7?

 

get tested and quit condomes