I keep thinking to myself and feeling like I'm a bisexual... not like I'm thinking it... but more like I'm feeling it... and it's a strange yet rather enlightening feeling. I mean... If I was bi, it wouldn't be to the point where I'd have any sexual relations... but... at the same time... it's like I can't help but feeling it... and I never understand people who are like "Ewww... all guys are ugly"... like they're picturing it as sex or something. I never understood that... and it's one thing that makes me think that. I don't know... it's more of a feeling than a thought... does anyone feel like this or has ever felt like that. I know I'm not a homosexual though... I've never had anything against one loving another and I don't judge people... I mean... what the hell.. people only think about sex in this world... they won't allow gay marraige because they're afraid of a religion... not everybody is part of the religion... I think religion is kind of obsolete in some ways like that... people need to learn to accept things for what they are and accept people for who they are.
Somewhere in the middle of all that, you were saying you have bisexual thoughts. Fact is, most guys have those, particularly in their teenhood, and it's pretty normal. But it's considered undesirable in social circles, so most people wouldn't fess up to it. But yeah, it's perfectly normal. I mean, why wouldn't you think guys were hot?
I know... but it's not just guys... I think all people as a whole are beautiful... no matter what they've done wrong or right... just for being themselves... I mean, it's not sexual tendencies for me... it may be for other people... I've never been a shallow type to say be attracted to really any actresses/actors and such saying they're hot... though I must admit, Johnny Depp is a rather sexy man from a male's point of view... but I think all people are beautiful... that's just the way I view things... and most people I know don't understand that as they're all... bush supporting republican types... and I notice they judge people for who they aren't but think they are way too much. I couldn't possibly stand looking from that point of view. I'm not a homosexual... and I'm not sure about bisexuality, but I think bisexualism helps you have a better understanding of people - no sex involved. A fairly simple concept. ~ George
when i was younger i refused to be defined by a sexuality. it just is, its part of you and can change with places in your life and with the people you meet. society is trying to teach us that our sexuality is not the gift that is really is. the older i get the harder it is for me to say exactly what i am. and i shouldn't have to. you shouldn't have to. somewhere (sorry i can't recall off the top of my head, its been a long day and night) here said it best, "it's not about what's between their legs, but what is between their ears." embrace who you are. everyone is beautiful, no matter the title... "gay," "straight," "hetero," "homo," "bi-sexual," "bi-curious," "transgender"... it shouldn't matter and the only way that is going to change is if enough people start to realize that. we are all beautiful and have a right to be attracted to and love whoever we do, no matter what idiotic sexual titles people wish to place. i like to think that sexuality is kind of a continual (think a circle)... and we're all on it somewhere. its stupid to think that attraction can only be based on gender.
Agreed in part; I'd at least attempt to fuck anything I'm attracted to. It's just that there's an overwhelming tendency for that not to be women. Best attitude is to just say "I'll fuck what I want", and just be yrself the rest of the time. People talk like being a gay or whatever is a state of mine, but really, it's less complex. You can't have a gay sense of humour or a gay perspective on life. I'd say you're probably just open-minded generally.
I don't think you even have to be that old, you'll just get to a certain point where you'll know, for definite, what if any orientation you have. Until then, just experiment, it won't hurt, you won't be scarred for life if you touch a boy's bum once, so just do what you want. PS, this has wandered way off-topic. The guy thinks he's bi because he's not a sexually repressed conservative. God bless our world.
My own view is that if you're having these feelings, follow them up... There is nothing wrong with it, and unless you do, you'll never know..
How we end up sexually comes from dominant traits, life experience, maybe something on chromosomal level.
I know I'm hetero, but it's to the point where I wouldn't do anything to a guy because that's just how I feel... not because that's just what we're "supposed to do"... But I mean that I love everyone... meaning I could probably kiss both a guy or a girl and I'd feel good about loving them, but I'm quite scared of doing anything further than that with another guy... I don't feel aroused with guys though... just my feelings.
the spin doctors are the shit...and so is orsino...seriously i really dig what you said about loving everyone but not feeling aroused by men...because...that is a really mature way of looking at things...you pretty damn cool.
Fuck titles. Heehee, you really don't have to even think about it. Love is love, you can love anyone, no need to give it any kinda name.
love is. it just is. don't try to put yourself under a category, because you never know when somebody will come along and take your breath away, whether it be a female or male. don't make assumptions like "oh, i'm straight so i can't go out with him even though i'm way into him" or "well i guess since i'm bisexual i can go out with him... even though i don't really like his personality". just go with it.
