Strap-on anal sex

I love my wife very much and I love to please her. I have no constraints about constantly trying out new experiences and we like to roleplay a lot.

Recently my wife suggested she had a domina fantasy she'd like to act out. She would tie me to the bed, blindfold and gag me and penetrate my anus using a strap-on while milking my penis.

I know, I know, myth and hearsay say it is a great experience, but I'm really not sure... I mean the idea does excite me, but I'd really like to know how it is. I mean I've always associated this sort of position with homosexual intercourse. Not to say anything about homosexuals, but, you know, it's just not my thing. I'm a heterosexual married man and loving it.

So I'd like to know how it feels like, if it is indeed as rewarding as they say, if it is painfully disturbing, if it is pleasurable when coupled with a fantasy like the one I described and, most of all, if it really is demeaning and unnatural for a man....???

Thanks in advance for answers to this doohickey!

 

Being fucked by a woman wearing a strap on does not mean your are gay/bi.

It is just some kinky sex with a woman.

If she takes her time and slowly penatrates you with a finger, or small toy.
Then takes you with a strap on, it should not hurt.

Doc Johnson makes a pink jellie prober that is tapered and can get things started. Pain free.http://www.vac-u-lock.com/detail/1/26/9/9/27/PINK-JELLIE-PROBER.html

Then she could take you with one of these http://www.vac-u-lock.com/detail/1/35/2/143/91/ULTRA-HARNESS-2-PLUG-WITH-8-34-COCK.html

Iv'e enjoyed strap on play a few times and when a woman WANTS to do this.
They really mean it.
They seem to enjoy a feeling of power and dominance they would not feel otherwise.
If she uses enough lubrication and fucks you long enough. You may orgasm
without her touching your penis.
USE PLENTY OF LUBE.

I would not eat anything the day before. Or at least nothing for 15 hours or so.
If she knows that you are making a sacrifice for her fantasy. It will add to her excitment.
Enema's are a good idea. But not eating for a while works best.
You want to be clear and clean for her play time.

Let her do it!

 

Couldn't be worse than her using a dildo on your ass (which is fun).

 

Okay, so we've done it and I must admit, it is fantastic. It is a great and adventureous way to have sex.

But apparently now my wife wants me to suck the strap-on dildo. Apparently she would enjoy it if I were to suck my own penis, but since I can't do that, she wants me to suck on that strap-on while she's wearing it...
What's the deal with that? Why do women get aroused by that actually? And is it enjoyable for men also? Any input (so-to-speak) is appreciated.

 

Why don't you think of it from your point of view. You like seeing her suck on you dick right? I don't know seeing a guy do it would seem so erotic. Having him be so comfortable with his sexuality and just showing a women something we don't get to see often and letting us take the dominate role that in its own can be very exciting. Just my imput.


Tiffany

 

I'm not really into that kind of thing either. It might feel good, but psychologically, I prefer to do the fuckin.

 

Yeah, well it finally happened! And I must admit, it was... something else. Although I felt a bit awkward at first, she literally blew my mind.

First she came into the room dressed in a very kinky leather lingerie, sporting a pair of handcuffs and bearing a very naughty facial expression... it was all so sudden and unexpected. She literally shoved me onto the bed, jumped ontop of me and, before I could do anything about it, she tied my hands to the bed post, gagged me with a piece of cloth and started spanking my cock. It was all so incredibly arousing. She started spanking and licking my cock, until she pulled out the strap. She wasted no time, put on the strap, grabbed me by my throat and said "I want you to suck me dry". Needless to say, I was pretty weirded out, but she didn't care. She pulled the gag out and, before I could protest, she forced the strap down my throat. She started pushing it in violently and jerking me off at the same time. I was feeling so helpless, so abused. It was incredibly arousing. Then she flipped me over and started penetrating my ass. Deeper and deeper. It seemed like hours, it probably was only minutes. She kept ramming my ass and stroking my cock. Then, just as I was about to cum, she stopped, pulled me up and said "I want you to satisfy me!" She gagged me with the cloth again and undid the cuffs, only to tie my hands behind my back. She pulled me inside her ass and started jumping up and down on my cock, spanking my balls periodically. Then, she flipped me over again, forced my cock into her and rammed two fingers inside my ass. We continued like this until I exploded with cum. She had 7 orgasms that night.

 

I hope we can get to that point in our sex life where my wife would enjoy dominating me with a strap-on . I found a really cool double ended dildo on line that would feel good for the woman who is the aggressor .
The " Feeldoe " vibrator It's got a knob for her G-spot and a clit stimulator .

 

We have a Clear G strap-on. It has a dildo on one side and a ball on the other. That way, when she's wearing it, she can dominate me with the dildo and satisfy herself with the ball. On the other hand, she can gag me with the ball, while I satisfy her with the dildo protruding from my mouth.

Today we did it again and she almost choked me with the damn thing. But it was so damn erotic!

 

..Another hetero fan of receptive anal play. Brainchild, I applaud your open mind and experimentation. I'm sure your wife loves the mental side of it even more than you enjoy the physical side.

 

Well, what can I say? I also had my doubts at first. I have always considered such behaviour as being dubious, but after discussing things with my wife and her reassuring me about my manhood and about the arousing feeling of power and domination she would feel. And, after trying it out, I must say, I'm less afraid to experiment than I was before. And to answer overlymature, yes, the wife loves the psychological powerplay. Thanks to the strap, roleplayling has reached new heights.

 

you are hooked now .. I love the feeling of her filling my ass.

 

We use Bend Over Beginner Kit. It has a harness, two silicone dildos and a vibrator that fits in the harness for stimulating her clitoris while she fucks me. She gives me a handjob while she fucks me. We usually cum together. It is so erotic to see her wearing the strap on and rubbing lube on the dildo while she talks dirty about her dick and how she is going to fuck me.

She also uses a vibrating anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Really intensifies my orgasms.

 

I remember the first time my girl used a strap on with me sha damb near made me cry. I guess since they can't feel anything it's ok to slam it home as soon as the head is in! I was going to pay her back later then though better of it if I ever wanted to do it again. I like to be on top so i have control till im used to it, then she can pound away all she wants.

 

Just purchased a new dildo(Vibrating Mistress) for the harness. It is fantastic. Very easy to insert with lube. Dimensions-6 inches long and 1.25 inches in diameter.

 

Most of the time, my wife likes to use various hand held dildos from our collection of goodies. When she breaks out the strapon, I know that I am in for a great ass fukking.
We have a few different dildos that fit into the harness, which she also like to use by hand.
There is no comparison to the two, other than they are both going to fukk my ass.
Getting fukked with the Strapon is so much more intense. She feels as if it's a part of her. She plows her strapon deep into my ass, just like I used to fukk her pussy and pumps away. She ususally buries the strapon all the way in until the balls are smacking my ass cheeks with each thrust . M<ost of the time, my ankles are in restraints and pulled up and spread. She is relentless and pounds my ass until I am delerious with pleasure and cum all over myself.

 

It's weird... now my wife had something else in mind... she wanted to try the game as a threesome. At first I had great objections, but then I gave in.

So last week she invited one of her girlfriends over for a chat... I didn't suspect a thing, as there hadn't been any talk of the strap for a while now.

Then, out of the blue, after a few healthy drinks, they start hitting on me and talking real dirty. I tried to push them off, but then they came at me with how I am a party pooper and how I should play along and not be a sour grape, so eventually I gave in. They "dragged" me to the bedroom and started pushing me around until I went down on my knees. I know it was all roleplay, but I still feel very weird about this.

Both of them started "raping" me with their strapons. So my wife made me suck her thing, while her friend fucked my ass. It was the most bizarre experience of my life and ever since I tend to avoid any contact with that girl, as I am to embarrassed to even talk to her. They seem to have enjoyed it greatly, as I heard my wife talking to her on the phone in a very relaxed and funny tone how we should do a "wine night" again sometime. I don't know, it's really crazy...

 

Why are you embarrassed? is it because you already knew this other woman, but not in a sexual way? is it because you feel "raped"? Have you talked to the wife about it? In situations of sexual exploration it's usually good to have a little debriefing (no pun intended) so that both partners can try to get on the same page, or at least be aware of the other's feelings about the experience.
My girl and I have dabbled in this sort of play, but she likes to be dominated, so it hasn't become a very big thing for us. It sounds like your wife is revving up her dominant nature, perhaps you could try to regain some for yourself? Like... get her to beg you to let her put it in you. I dunno, just don't forget that sexual domination can often become confused with relational domination. Keep them separate and it opens the door for lots of fun and kinky stuff.

 

can you actually orgasm from anal ?

 

Yes.. Oh god yes