I need a guy's point of view on a body issue.

aww, thank you. :blush5:
I do still wish my boobs were a little different in size and the way they look..but I'm learning to like them and appreciate that he loves them.

 

the only way I could critique them properly would be to see them...



otherwise you'll just have to live with my assessment of 'they're great boobs'

 

lol

Astral projection on your part is the only way that'll ever happen.

 

I knew I should have practiced more.

oh well, my loss. lol

 

hey knotdirty... actually a healthy c-cup is a damn good size. I'm a total breast man and I personally feel like a "c" qualifies as a decent to large breast. And I'm with 25yrstoolate... you look pretty yummy to me.

and boob jobs are just nasty, way to go with the no plastic surgery!

 

No, checking out every hot girl that passes is normal and i wont appologize for it, girls hate that but im a man.

 

Try no to take what he looks at personally, it's just what he is in the mood for. Its normal to feel some self doubt when your man is looking at porn that highlights something you are sensitive about. Your boobs look great! I am sure he adores all your bits and pieces.

Don't you ever watch porn that has men that are more muscular or better equipped than your man? Its the same thing basically...and it doesn't mean anything more than "damn that looks good" at the moment.

 

I don't generally concentrate on men in porn...I look more at women when I watch it.

Which...actually, now that you mention it he is a little sensitive about the fact that I'm attracted to women. I'd never really given credit to his insecurities until just now. Wow.

That's crazy...he feels the same way as I do...and neither insecurities have much merit, I guess. they're both totally silly.

Damn.

 

nope.

and you're right about insecurities. most people are insecure about things they needn't be.

 

i think everybody is self concious in there own ways, i think your just overreacting

i think cs are perfect, although i also like a d or dd myself, it doesnt matter to much to me if the girl im with is a good person and i like or love her

 

A similar thing happened to me too. I found posts that my boyfriend had made in a discussion forum, admitting that he prefers really big tits and also commenting on pictures of women who had my size of breasts, saying they were flat chested. That really got to me and I never got over it. I still feel ugly and imperfect when he sees me without clothes. I cringe when he touches my breasts. I wish I didn't, because it has destroyed something between us.

 

Well, I really liked this thread - and most of the ppl here have a real grasp of male sexuality and understand the reality of porn. Pretty much what everyone said about it meaning nothing in comparison to a real relationship.

Porn is fantasy, an image, whereas a lover is real. You love the person as a whole - and do not expect that person to look like that image on the page or screen.

And most women here accept that men are visual by nature and get off on seeing a variety of sexualities. My wife and I watched porn vids together, sometimes making out with the couple on screen. She accepted my visual stimulation and never made any complaints about my porn collection. She knew better and until seeing most of the replies here I thought she was just unique in understanding men.

I would not allow a woman to restrict my nature - and Aristartle may take these responses to heart and lighten up on her man or there may be eventual consequences.

I learned that you cannot change the nature of a cat. You can force it to not jump on the kitchen table while you are around, but as soon as you leave the house the cat is on the table. Same with men. You may put your foot down when it comes to porn, but your man will get it on the down low.

As most ppl pointed out here, porn has nothing to do with you or your relationship with your man. It is a diversion that most men enjoy. You cannot fulfill every fantasy your man may possess (you may not want to go there anyhow) and his porn does not undermine what you give him.

You give him reality, a relationship with a real person. Porn gives him images and fantasy. I would suggest you change your attitude, because knowing the nature of men (yours might be an exception) eventually he will resent you for suffocating his nature.

Just my opinion as a man.

 

Leave your boobbies alone. Porn is easy to become addicted to and can lead to fidelity issues especially if he is hiding it. Love yourself and your body just as you are. Seems as if you have some personal issues you need to work on....please work on them and then you won't need anyone to substantiate your worth, which should be more than anyone else.