guys: when is a woman good in bed?

when and why would you qualify a woman as good in bed?

 

When she is just that, good at sex.

Ive been with some girls who are REALLY good, and others who are really awkward and clueless.. Not as fun.

 

ok,
and what makes her good at sex?

 

No excuses

 

i prefer them when they are naked in bed... personally

 

Enthusiasm, sexiness, technique

 

i think every guy has their own opinions and views on what's sexy and what makes a girl good in bed, what one guy loves another may hate... just be your own little sexy self and you'll be fine... i think guys find it the most sexy when we are comfortable with ourselves and our sexuality.. have fun, experiment, sex shouldn't be so written in stone or else shit would get boring real fast lol..

 

I think this is a complex question.

I think one mans meat, is another mans poison.

If a man is into anal he loves anal, if another man is not into it, he hates it and may even be repulsed by it.

So its a personal thing to some extent.

I think a man wants a women who likes sex and doesn't have many hang ups.

I think most women start off like this and end up hating sex for whatever reason.

I also think there is nothing more unsexy than a women that just lays there reading a book saying "Hurrrrrrrry UPPPPPPPP @!!!!!!"

It of course may not be the womens fault, it maybe because the guys technique is very poor.

If a women has been repeatedly raped and brutally beaten by many men, you wouldn't expect her to be good in bed, I would think that her sexuality would be ruined.

So when a man says the women is a terrible lay, it maybe a reflection of his own failure to get her aroused.

We are not born good lovers you have to learn it.

Kissing:

Knowing how to kiss a guy is an advantage because if you do it well it can be very erotic.

Its also the final stage(the mating ritual) before sexual intercourse, which is I think important.

Cuddling:

I think is good because its a tease, and that builds up the sexual tension for both of you and its also proves hes not just interested in his own needs but aslo your own.

Caressing: a guy all over the body and especially the genitals can be very erotic.

Knowing how to give a good hand job is yet another way to bring a guy to climax which can make your sex life more interesting.

Oral sex:

To put it bluntly, you have to know how to suck cock really well which takes time and practice to perfect the art of fellatio or for that matter cunnilingus.

There is no doubt that knowing how to suck a cock is important as how you look doing it.

I think its obviously true that oral sex is affective form of stimulous that will bring a guy to ejaculation, having said that it may not be your "cup of tea".

And I think its really up to you to decide whether thats something that you are willing to do or are not willing to do.

The other thing I should mention is the risk of STD infection which is something you should think about carefully before you decide to felate your guy, and of course the opposite is true.

Never do something that your not happy about doing for whatever reason.

I believe that the longer you can hold a guy off in bed( avoidance of penetration) the better it will ultimatley be for both of you.

There are also lots of other things that make sex better:

Femininity.

Hygiene.

Quirkiness. Some women do things that are really funny and cute, which I really like. e.g. When the Crown Princess of Denmark - Mary went up to Fredrik with a little toy tassie tiger in her hand and went to bit him with it, whilst she said " Grrrrr ...."

Softly spoken and sexy voice (don't underestimate this). Its a powerful turn on (for me at least) when a women wispers sexy things in my ear 1. because of the content and 2. Its erotic to have a women's mouth and her presence around my earlobes and neck.

Gentleness.

Its nice when a women is gentle and doesn't knee me in the crown jewels ....

Neat trimmed pubic mound.

I guess this is again something that is personal, personally I prefer a women to be neat and tidy.

 

As others have said, I think it's mostly attitude. Men can tell if a woman really enjoys sex and isn't inhibited about it. I also think men like a woman who is a little bit aggressive sexually. Not too much. Just enough.

 

I think a lot of whether a girl seems good in bed is a reflection on if the GUY is good in bed.
If the guy just isnt that great , she sure as hell isnt going to go out of her way to make it a good time.

 

When we've been together for two years, and just the thought of a romp in the sheets is enough to get me going.

I agree with the comment regarding enthusiasm, but it needs to be coupled with great technique, as well. Nothing turns me on like seeing that look of hunger in her eyes...

 

I agree with most here about what they said so I'll just add onto it to top it off by saying as long as they don't smell haha