Will Mushrooms give me the power to open up?

I've been talking to this girl lately, shes good friends of my good friend's girl, and I really fucking dig her. There is so much bottled up inside of me that I want to tell her, but I just don't feel like I could do it right now. I only met her like two weeks ago. I don't know if time will give me the courage, but it seems that the longer I wait the more chance there is for outside influence to grow on her from other guys. Will using shrooms help me tell her my true feelings for her, and if they do will it be good to say it so soon? I'm going to be doing them with her and the two people mentioned earlier.

 

yeah i imagine it'lll be a good bonding experience for the 2 of you, and a lot easier to open up....

good luck

 

my post is negative so don't read it if you don't like that . . .

honestly man

forgetting for a moment that your idea is TERRIBLE unless you are CERTAIN she REALLY LIKES YOU, mushrooms is not the way to do it. do it sober. if you can't do it sober you can't do it, it will just be too weird on mushrooms, have you ever even done them? has she?

you met this girl 2 weeks ago, and already you have all this bottled up shit? i know you're only 16 so it looks like this is going to be an amazing chapter of your life, but let me just bet 1c right now that you're going to blurt out how much you adore her and how many feelings you have for her, and she's going to tell you you're a really sweet guy but she doesn't like you 'that' way, lets just be friends.

why?

because when you blurt out shit like that to a girl you're giving all your power away to her and you look like a wussy and that is pretty much the biggest turn off you could ever give her. it paradoxical, you probably won't believe me, and i might even get flamed by both sexes here, but just do us a favor and update this thread when you do it, and THEN you can call me a jackass

 

i dont think mushrooms would be a good idea for what your going for.

really i think alcohol may be your best ally, if you feel you need one, but as with Mr. Writer above, i feel like sobriety is really the best way to connect with someone new.

 

Mr. Writer is 100% right. if you really like this girl, just talk to her straight. if you REALLY feel the need to talk to her on something, go for the booze. i would say drop some e but you are a little young to be fucking with that stuff. if you like this girl, DO NOT EAT SHROOMS BEFORE YOU TALK TO HER

 

yea it will be mind fuck and the awkwardness exponentially increased and elongated.


...but maybe in the afterglow...

emotions are so pure and simple after coming out of a heavy 'shroom trip


just keep it real and have fun

What i realized is you have to try and understand it from the girl's perspective, how she is seeing you. this will help you connect better also. psilocybin is a very spiritual experience, but on a good dose mushrooms, you are pretty much fucked up out of your mind and crazy; this will be apparent.

(i really love this thread; ha to be 16, i can't even count how many potential girl crushes i ruined thinking it would be easier tripping/whatever. fuuckk... now i know that nothing will help my cause; except for low dose opiates or molly)

i'd say just man up and give her the heads up that you think she is hot want to fuck her, and give her good sex that works better than anything else. -----actions speak louder than words----- haha!

good luck young duude!!~

 

haha great fuckin thread, nice laugh, props mr. writer!

 

Nooo not alcohol, that's so cliche.

I think you should do mushrooms with this girl, and it will bring you closer if you're meant to get closer, but don't go into it with an agenda. If you really care, just wait it out and let it happen. I don't go about these things the way most people do, but personally, I think that you can't REALLY be sure about anything at only 2 weeks, and even if you think you are and you end up being right, it's best to hold off on bringing it up. Don't try to make it move any faster, or you might come across as not in the moment, and not on the same wavelength, which might end it. If she feels the way you feel, she knows, you don't need to say anything yet.

Just enjoy what is happening. Don't try so hard.

 

I like your advice Mr.Writer well put! I dont think taking mushrooms with a girl you like and hardly know on hopes of opening up with her is a good idea

 

you can know from the first conversation

or not even saying anything

 

let your bottled premature ejacu-feelings out, get rejected, and learn to care less

only when you can comfortably say what you feel towards a woman, is there any reason for her to be intimate with you.

If you cant even say words (that you assume she will like to hear) then you have no chance with this person.

I know how it feels... but taking drugs is not the answer. Maybe have a couple of drinks. But I think at this stage, you need to care less about actualities and start thinking about hypotheticals... Eg. stop caring about how you will tell her your feelings and start thinking about why you have the feelings in the first place and why you think that you are an appropriate partner for this girl.

 

smart dude up there^

 

If your worried that your gonna say something you later regret don't worry. Like other people have said, you'll probably bond somewhat, but its not gonna be like with alcohol where you might get really drunk and say something like "I think we should get married" or whatever.

 

i dont think itd be a good idea, but who knows. we dont know how well you have clicked with her, if you feel you can handle it, do it but be careful

 

if you guys get along as friends i don't see why tripping with her would be a bad idea. in fact it could be fun. i agree with prismatism that you should definitely not go into the trip with an agenda. go with the flow. mushrooms can be intense though, and you must remember this. i frequently lose the ability to communicate, so be prepared, because like vapordude said "yea it will be mind fuck and the awkwardness exponentially increased and elongated." be prepared for awkwardness...somehow awkwardness can always find its way into a trip. be prepared but also know that it can be fun .

so i doubt the mushrooms will give you the power to open up (for many reasons)

go with the flow, and perhaps this trip will give you an idea of how close you two actually are.

is this your first trip on shrooms?

 

yeah same question is this your first trip on shrooms?

but i also think this is a horrible idea, especially if its your first trip

 

Pop some e and fall in love for the night

 

i fell in love with someone on ecstasy one night...dated em and cared about him for a lot longer

but in the end it was the drug that brought us together...

drugs will do weird shit thats for sure

 

Drugs can be good for both making and breaking relationships at the same time...Certain Drugs anyways lol

 

Idk. go to shroomery.com (i think its .com) i read on their site that like you will let out you feelings and shit and it says with the opposite sex you might do something you dont want to... just read it its good info.