Supposily you can find fuck-buddies at AdultFriendFinder.com . I was going to check it out but didn't want to pay the subscription fee. Now I get teaser e-mails from them telling me of all the fuck-buddies in my area. If I find myself single again i might check this site out. But if you do, let us know how it worked out for you. Good luck with that.
Haha yeah i signed up on there too and i keep getting 2-4 emails about woman sending me emails that live close by that want to seduce me but i can't access it fully because of the subscription fee and i'm not paying for sex. Unless it's a longtime relationship.
monkedup , how would you feel if your wife did what you are thinking about doing ? If you are an honorable man , stay faithful to that dear lady that has stayed with you for so long. For all you know she may have a medical or hormonal thing going on that makes her not want sex much anymore , and that isnt her fault. Menopause can mess a woman up BIG TIME , and lots of times we dont even realise its happenng in the very beginning. Stop trolling for sex , and love your wife.
^^ Yes. I doubt you truly love her because you're asking about a fuck buddy, but if you really do then at least be faithful. I'm sorry, but I tend to really not like people like yourself monkedup.
try craigslist dot org be carefull, lots of scammers, mostly tring to lure you into a pay site. "casual encounters" is the place to start. RE 'hookers' in todays liberated society, many otherwise normal girls go coomercial as a side job. It is not all slaves, addicts or drunks. The internet allows them to meet people without being too outward, IE walking the street. They play safe and keep it fun.
what about finding a woman in an open relationship? you get a fling, she has no real draw to make you permanent, etc.
So your idea is that even though she doesn't wan't sex he should still stay faithful. Well maybe you have no sex drive....but most of the rest of the male population actually needs it. He said she alreayd stated this has been going on for 8 years,he has talked to her and she doesn't find sex either enjoyable or a priority. Sex and love are 2 seperate things....women intertwine them but this guy might still love his wife however he still needs sex.
The problem is since she does not view it as a priority then she most likely will have a problem with you doing it. Have you taken her to a doctor to discuss some sort of hormone treatment....barring that i think you should get a divorce...
I will say that it is possible to find women like this but beware. I was in a situation like this. I just wanted a fuck friend that was a dom. i found out my friend from high school was into this type of sex so we met up discussed some things and a few days later had amazing sex. problem is i found out he had always had a thing for me and i've developed feeling's for him. it's been going on nearly 2 months now and despite efforts on both sides to keep it to just sex we can't..we were getting so close it was like we were together...so now we only see each other like once a week. the feelings are still there though and they are starting to take over (i am married so this is a problem) . just trying to help you out...where there can be sex without love, most times there cannot be sex without feelings.:banghead:
Sounds like the story of my life. My ex (wow, that's the first time I've typed that) was the same way. Before our daughter was born, we had sex all the time. Neither of us could get enough. Then after our daughter came, she completely lost interest. We have gone years without having sex.
My friend found a "friend" on Facebook. He has been "seeing" her for the last week. You get to know each other it isn't seedy and it is easier to find people in your local area. So I have been told *cough*.
Many of us girls also have fuck buddies at some point or other. The point is the buddy part. Could you be friends with the lady? Sometimes just meet for a chat over coffee? Cheer her up when she is down? That is what a fuck buddy is. A friend you have sex with.
Too much moralizing about what is strictly a physical act. Oh, yes it is far better if you have strong feelings for each other - it makes the intimacy much better, but you don't have to be in love to have sex, and to enjoy it tremendously.
its hard to find a good f-buddy but meeting as many people as you can in places such as bars will usually be the most ideal way to find one :afro: