My girlfriend is a very sweet girl, and she is quite cute too. I'm still as attracted to her as I ever was. But the problem is... I'm just getting bored with her. (For reference, we've been together about 9 months) I almost want to break up with her just so I can go after other women with a clean conscience but... I really have no other reason to break up, and that seems like such a lame reason. I feel like this is something which will always happen no matter what girl I am with. Also I know if I tell her I'm bored of her she will get really defensive and probably cry, so I am not going that route. I'm just not sure what to do.
Sure. What the fuck does that have to do with anything? I said I'm bored of her, not that she's bored of me. Plus, she doesn't really like receiving oral. I enjoy it but she only lets me do it occasionally.
do you still have the receipt? maybe you can return it for a better one.. But I returned a vacuum before I had another one and that was a bad idea. I had to rent a maid and then another..
regardless, the best way is to tell her the truth and that you are bored in the relationship. Then you will have options once she responds to that.
you live in LA.. and your bored with your chick? dude I live in the middle of fucking nowhere... be lucky you got one that just sits there and looks good..
haha..that is what I was thinking..when people say they are bored..I always think.. your bored, cause you are boring..
This is the reason why you're bored. Your communication is not plentiful or open enough. Tell her...you've got to!
This means you're a typical human male. Depending on what set of statistics you look at, somewhere in the ballpark of three quarters of husbands end up cheating on their wives, to say nothing of men that aren't married. They find other women attractive, they lust after them, and sooner or later they generally end up acting on that. Yes, it's wrong (the same goes for women, of course, though their infidelity statistics aren't quite as bad), but it makes you the same as at least 75% of men. Unfortunately, there's no simple solution for you here. You can break up with this girl and still be the exact same way with the next one and the one after that, and indeed probably all of them from here on out. I guess you can always just try for booty calls and "friends with benefits" sorts of situations rather than serious relationships, but you'll always have these troubles with serious relationships.
ya, man suck it up and let her know whats going on. maybe you're just not meant to be with people long term
are you bored with a pattern of interaction (all you do together is dine out, hit a show, whatever) or of the relationship physically (in bed) or...? Can some spice get tossed back in the mix? and full time university plus 30 hours of work is a LOT, mentally and physically. For women, it can be hard to lay that burden down and focus on an hour or two of good loving. ramp up the slow, sensuous, seduction. If I feel like my sweetie is only being nice for sex, I'm so not into it. If I feel he's getting off just being, and doing, then well, is moves along.
best thing you can do man is tell her the truth. I have been lied to about that shit in the past and it still haunts me to this day. And I'm a guy. She sounds like a decent human being and any decent human deserves the truth. You own them that at least. The truth. Peace and Love
Break up before one of you gets to attached and gets hurt. Not fair to her . And doesn't sound like you want to hurt her. Think and talk over with her.
I think that the "decent" thing to do as far as the situation is concerned, is too start witholding your personality, grow distant, then she too will begin to grow bored. Then you can both agree to disagree and part free of conscience.
