If my wife isn't fu-king me in the ass with a dildo or giving me a facial with my own cum, she tells me to take care of myself while she watches. I always enjoyed doing things to myself while she watched. As long as she doesn't have to do anything, she doesn't care what I do. I will do crazy things, just to get a rise out of her. I don't do anything different than I would do if I were by myself, but doing while she watches is so much more thrilling. It's crossing a line that takes it to another level.
I've had a few girls want to watch me play with it, especially after they found out how small my penis is. It's fun and I enjoy the mild humiliation I feel.
HAHA, do you call it winkie? Actually that could be a plus. I know hot girls that would rather have a guy with a smaller dick, because they would rather take it in the ass. They have told me that they won't do anal with even a guy with an average size dick. I was the first one to fuck my girlfriend in the ass it made her squirt all over and she said it was her biggest orgasm but it hurt. She let me do it 2 other times, but never again. One time I was so tired and in a deep sleep, I guess I had a massive erection because I woke up after she had lubed my dick up and put it in her ass. Good stuff...
Usually I call it my little guy. Girls tend to be meaner (and more creative). I've not had offers for anal based on the size of my penis (3.5" hard), but it's a nice thought.
Just about every female, aside from one head case, loved it when I tugged on it. But now whenever I do it the wife finishes me off with her mouth and, I tell you what, there is no better orgasm than jerking it and having her finish it off with her tongue. Massive payload without question.