Fuck today

My bf just called me and said he got terminated from school because his cumulative grade or something like that, was 3 points lower than it should have been.I don't know what to do.It just makes me really sad knowing he won't be here.He doesn't know if he should appeal it or just work, then come up here in the fall and go to community college, rather than wasting another semester of money if he's not sure if he wants to be at this school.I told him I rather have him do what he wants then just coming back mostly just for me, because I know that would be stupid.We're only an hour away and I can come visit him and vice versa.I just hope it doesn't turn out like my last relationship.

 

that sucks dude, but you're doing the right thing, encouraging him to do what he wants to do....perhaps he will want to be close to you...either way an hour isn't all that bad and he can stay with you on the weekends and stuff right?

 

Yeah and I can even go to his house as well.

The weird thing is, his aunt did my tarot card reading during the weekend.I ask about doing well in school during the summer semester, and it said that our relationship was going to be testing in the end of May or during June.Also, that I shouldn't let our relationship get in the way of me doing well in school and vice versa.That shit is so weird.Kinda eery

 

That's pretty eerie indeed. It sucks he got terminated because of such a thing though. Why would he want to go to a community college rather than a specialty college? He's gonna have to take all those lame pointless classes.

 

Idk to get his grades up maybe because his gpa isn't really good.I'm just scared all the shit is gonna come true.I'm gonna try my best though :/

 

Testing doesn't mean broken up. It's only an hour, sheesh. I've dated people who lived way farther away than that. Though that never lasts more than a couple months. :leaving:

 

Sorry to hear about that. Schools do suck about that stuff sometimes.

I would tell him to appeal. They like it when you do that. It shows that you really want to change. Have him suggest taking some summer courses near his house and submit those grades for credit for next year. If he can raise his gpa then he might still be able to go back. The same thing happened to someone I know and they had to take a semester off but they got to come back in the spring season. It depends on how bad he wants it.

 

You know just because you have webcam sex with them doesn't mean your dating them.

 

i dated someone who lived like an hour and a half away, pushing 2 hours if traffic was bad

we lasted about a year, but we didn't break up because of the distance.

i think everything will be fine! just as long as you're ok with not seeing him every day (or however much you used to see him) and can trust him, it should all work out.

 

Well he said he's not going to appeal because why waste more money if he's not sure he wants to stay after.Our school is pretty expensive so I don't blame him.I mean if I could have my way I'd tell him that but it's not my life.

I'm just pissed that the school told him 3 days before the new semester starts.wtf is that?

Yeah I know but it's weird going from seeing this person just about everyday to every now and then.My ex lived at home while I lived here last year and that didn't last.I guess it just depends on the two people.I'm sure it'll work out and won't let anxiety take the best of me.I'm sure it's just gonna take getting used to for the first month or couple weeks.

 

Yeah I doubt he'd ever hurt me and I would never do the same.He's made sure of that many times.He's a really good guy.

 

im sorry meli i'm kinda goin through the same thing. i had to make cs in all 7 classes but i didnt do it so ilost my scholarship. so i dunno what imma do about school after this summer.

 

7 classes is waaaaay too much.Did they really expect you to not go crazy?Fuckers.

I'm already feeling better about it actually.It'll be a lot easier to bust my ass and try and get straight A's.I know it's possible.

 

no but since i only passed ine class last semester so i got special permission to take 7 to keep my tops. but i didnt do it.

 

That's crazy.I can barely take 5 classes without freakin out.

 

yeah well thats why i wanna quit for awhile and stack my paper

 

I was in a very similar situation, I went to a small yet expensive school about an hour away for 2 years, found a cool gf and then got "terminated" because my grades dropped cuz I never cared much about that school. Still stayed with my gf and went to a community college for a year before transfering to a university. I would only get to go see my gf every week or 2 on the weekend. It sucked but it is totally doable. We are still together, eventually she graduated and moved closer, unfortunately Im still in school paying for my mistakes. Take your education very seriously people, you will thank yourself later

 

He should make a small invention.

 

Could be worse, you could be facing jail time
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you are facing jail time???