He told me I smell bad?

I'm really sort of baffled by this. Basically I was talking to this guy I used to hook up with (when he had a girlfriend...) and we're having all these issues because he has a girlfriend now as well and we still really want each other, etc.

Anyway we mostly made out and cuddled naked and he fingered me, but once we were super drunk and I wanted him to go down on me. That was the only time I've ever actually asked someone to do it and he only did it for a minute and stopped. I always wondered why.

So yesterday we were talking on the phone and we randomly got on the subject of genitalia and he eventually mentioned he thinks all vaginas smell bad, including mine. I was COMPLETELY taken aback by this because:

a) Multiple guys have eaten me without me asking for it or even hinting at it. Nor did I give them head first so they couldn't have felt obligated to. And I've had oral performed on me for rather long periods of time, tongue fucking and everything. I've even been told how fun it is for them to go down on me.

b) I stay ridiculously clean and shaved at all times

c) I've smelled/tasted myself and I most definitely don't smell bad

d) Explains why he stopped so soon when I made the mistake of asking him for oral the first and only time in my life


This pissed me off/offended me so much that honestly I don't even want to hook up with him anymore. The thought of hooking up with him has been a turnoff since our conversation last night, when before I definitely felt a huge attraction to him and thinking back on all the time we spent together sexually aroused me a lot.

Am I overreacting? How would you feel in this situation?

 

you shouldnt want to hook up with him because he's in a relationship and obviously is only interested in one thing(doesnt it say something about what kind of person he is that he's willing to fuck around on his gf?!)

....that aside....

vaginas smell like vaginas, they dont smell like roses, it's an acquired taste and not everyone enjoys it...

its not the end of the world, go have a shower and get on with your life.

 

Put that aside though. He'll probably go on a break with his girlfriend. We've pretty much liked each other for 2 years but he's a pussy (oh the irony).

 

put that aside and he's still a cheater......

spade is a spade is a spade, doesn't matter which way you turn it.

"he'll probably go on a break..."?! how special, does that mean when he's done with you he'll return to her?!?!?

 

ur mad at him cuz your pussy stinks? hahaha

in my experience if a girls pussy smells good one time, it always does

and when a girls pussy stinks, it always stinks. wheter its a day, week or year later deal with it & get on wit yo life.

its not that serious

 

agreed .. there are minor variations thru out the month.. but its all good.. IMHO.. he's just looking for a excuse..

 

Hey, I most definitely do not have any kind of unpleasant smell down there.

 

I'd say if you're sure you were smelling good then either he was insecure about going down on you or maybe he was feeling guilty doing that for you.. everyone's different, some people think oral or other acts are more intimate than others and he may have felt like he was doing something wrong since he's with someone else. I know that's not logical, but hey, it's possible.

I'd just let it go and leave him alone since he's taken anyway.

 

Most of the dudes my age are fucking retarded. I know SO many dudes that don't even like the way a vag LOOKS, let alone how it smells or tastes. A lotta the guys around my age that I've gotten with have given me the same complaint - "I don't like going down on girls... they smell weird. And they get all wet and stuff. It's gross."

That just smacks of homosexuality, I think.

 

I feel like it's ridiculous too. I'd personally love to eat out another girl. Isn't it natural for a guy to be attracted to a girl's pheromones? We're both 18.

 

maybe your pheromones are offensive to him

*shrugs*

its really not a big deal

 

some guys are total pussies when it comes to lickin cha cah..no pun intended..ok..pun intended..only once have I not been able to go down on a chick cause of a strong odor that I knew damn well would translate to an awful taste so I kinda kissed around teasingly and banged her instead...obviously I would be happy to diagnos you as a friend..in a medical way....also I have heard guys that wouldnt go down cause they just thought it was un-natural..I laugh about it with their wives when I'm going down on them cause the hubbies won't...also I could wax poetic on this subject at great length but for now i must be rollingalong

also I agree with toolmaggot..we seem to share an interest in this subject..she rocks

 

Agreed.

He may honestly think that you taste/smell bad, that doesn't mean that you do but his opinion is his own. Doesn't mean that all guys think that way.

Other thoughts: dump the loser, if he can cheat with you he'll cheat on you.

 

Not sure it smacks of homosexuality as much as of banal immaturity. Gay folk do things (so I hear) with assholes. Vaginas are super sterile (even piss has acid to keep the front of the vag germ free.) I think the guy is a selfish brat, as are all the 'fellas' who abhor the smell. Shit is dirty, not so the genitals. We (men and women) wash them, cover them in clean underwear, and use them two, three times a day to pass the most sterile liquid in the world (thanks, kidneys!) and still the guy whose all for a head over his dick won't return the favor. The trouble with you women is that you keep going out with guys your own age. Just read their comments on this forum, if you don't believe the age group 18-27/8 are still boys. Try a few men. A good test is "do they have the experience, good taste, and cultured apprecation to enjoy that wondrous scent, taste and feel of a woman's pussy?" Now, that's grown up! Believe it.

 

I love pussy, it's part of my extended food pyramid, it comes after desert. Save the best for last...

 

Don't worry about him, sounds like a faggot, i love eating pussy, i like it more than getting a b/j to be honest, or maybe thats cus my ex was crap at b/j's hehe.

 

If this wasn't a serious relationship, which I gather it isn't, and it's physical rather than emotional (anything else and you're getting played hardcore), then I'd say forget about him. You don't owe him anything. If the fire's out, it's out. Move on. I don't see how this is a question. Sexual infatuations can be fragile things when there's nothing else to base the relationship on.

 

Seems more like he told you he doesn't like vaginas. Sounds more like his hangup than yours, no big deal.

 

Send me some of your panties and I'll confirm that.

 

I agree with what many of you say, if he doesn't want to eat you out, it's because he doesn't care about your sexual satisfaction.

I mean seriously, most of the pleasure centers in the genital region on a female are on the clit, which is NOT in the vagina, so it can't be reached with a penis.

According to many sex experts like Kinsey, the average woman is sexually unfulfilled. Most women cum A LOT easier from a good tongue lashing than from penetration itself. I had to learn this through experience. I don't have the biggest jimmy on earth, I am average, but I made ALL my girls cum consistently from the tongue fu.

If he doesn't want to go down on you, then don't go down on him, tell him his penis smells funny, and his cum tastes weird, and see how he feels.

Sometimes you have to put the shoe on the other foot, it's not about being mean or getting revenge, is about gaining perspective.

I have rules in my house, before I stick it, I always lick it, that includes the pussy and the butt, women are not like men. According to daoist sexology, men are like fire, quick to ignite and quick to extinguish, women are like water, slow to heat up and slow to extinguish (as women can go forever in sex because they are multi-orgasmic naturally).

I think performing oral on women is so hot. I love eating my girls pussy out, and just watching her wraith around uncontrollably when she cums. After she comes I will stick my tongue deep in her ass to warm her up, and then I fuck the hell out of her ass until I cum.