i'm 18 and i masterbate about 5 times a week and i feel like it gets u more hard to drop the more time u do it so my question is if i continued to masterbate would it effect me and my wife when i get married ? i mean like not making my wife to have enough sex . and she will be horny while we're married cause i masterbate if so how can i leave it ?
masterbation is a sex subsitute not sex if your wifes horny have sex if shes got a headache masterbate it doesnt take a genuis to figure out
Exactly, i dont really understand the question Ill be getting married next year and very rarely masturbate...but then thats because i dont need to, as i have a fiancé!
No it does not affect the way one masturbates - may drop the number a bit but the level quality increases especially when incorporated with time with the spouse or I would say your other half if not married. Been married a long time, age 53 and enjoy masturbation more now than when I was young - why? Cause I am better at it - don't just whack off, enjoy and indulge.
Very simple, attach your hands behind your back. HAHAHA! you are 18 what are you thinking about marriage already and all that kind of conservative things?? have fun. BTW it isnt called Master Bate (like in Psycho) But to masturbate. Giving masturbating and masturbation. OOOOPPS! sorry, now i got you on the roll again! lol!
I have been married before and hardly ever masturbated,sex is better than masturbation,but being by myself and not in a relationship masturbation is far better than no pleasure at all.
quit it when you get married. or do it with your whife. that way it by far better. watching porn and masturbatin alone while your girl is cooking will affect your marridge in a bad way
As my wife gets older (menopause - hot flashes, et al) her desire for sex has diminished to once, maybe twice a week yet she is still very hot. With this situation masturbation after marriage easily could increase as you get older you woung married folks. I find masturbation now far deeper and satisfying to the nth degree making the time I am with the wife nice long sexual experiences with her having four or five orgasms and quivering to my light touch.
Ok when you get married you may think that sex isn't important anymore, which is far from the truth. We as men have done masterbation from the day we were born, or until we figured out what that rod on us was for. But anyway that rod we carry can make us or break us, that is up to each of us as men what we do with it. Sex is great if we want to enjoy it & have children. Exploring each others body is even better. Cause that rod ( penis) gets bigger and bigger each time we get next to our mate. When we see our mate nude our penis really starts to expand & thats when it is time to show our mate what we are made of. So i guess if she finds us masterbating our privates, then that means she approves of us and wants a piece of our penis. So I would continue masterbating your penis in your own panties and turn your wife or girlfriend on as long as you can. Most girls would give anything for their boyfriends to use their panties,cause they want to smell the scent from their pee on the panties in order to have a good orgasim. And it will not slow you down any, for at least 20yrs and maybe even longer, depending on your health. Oh by the way doing masterbation is good for the heart as well, it keeps the blood flowing. So don't stop. If you can't do it with your girlfriend or wife, then do it looking at porn on the internet that will help. There are other good ways of doing masterbation, but i would just stick with nylon panties as long as i can. Enjoy sex and you will become a better person.
I'm married. Both my my wife and I masturbate regularly, together and solo. As long as you aren't masturbating solo to the exclusion of sex with your partner, it's fine.
Probably a majority of married men continue to wank, especially when the li'l woman's on the rag, or pregnant, or has a headache, or doesn't feel like it, or while she's out with the girls, or shopping, or....... Few marriages if any meet the high level of sexual excitement and expectation boys and men conjure up in their fantasies. Masturbation is the natural method provided by evolution to meet these li'l crises. So wank away, kid. You will probably continue to enjoy it 'til the end of your life. I feel sorry for those feeling constrained from have extra marital sex (masturbation) because they're married. Conjugal sex and auto eroticism are seperate identities and can be enjoyes concurrently. Thank the gods!
Masturbation is better once you are married. For me, its the only time I focus on myself, and my own pleasure. During sex, I always think more about my wife than myself. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE sex with my wife, and its only getting better, but there is still always that part of me that wants to just get off, with no emotional attachments, no worries about another person, etc.
my wife loves to watch me masturbate.. and i her .. she makes me do it sometimes just to get her off ok
My wife and I masturbate if we feel like an orgasm and there is some reason we can't have sex. We don't make a big deal out of it and it doesn't seem to have any effect at all one our sex together. She gets up earlier than I do and leaves for work earlier so I often masturbate in the morning and at night after she's in bed, if we don't have sex first. She told me she masturbates a couple of times a week when she comes home in the afternoon. We have both awakened to find the other masturbating during the night. I think the main thing is to be very open with your partner about your sexuality. It would seem a poor choice to masturbate instead of sex if your partner wants to do it.
By the way, my wife masturbates while we have sex all the time. That's one of the reasons she likes it from behind or on top. I also manipulate her clit. She usually doesn't have an orgasm just from intercourse otherwise. If I finish before she does, she'll usually keeps going until she cums.