Do you believe in that saying that if you think about something that you want too much, then it won't happen? Because I really like this guy but I can't stop thinking about him, and this saying worries me! I know that this question has nothing to do with the category, I just wanted answers!
It's not necessarily the saying but the person. If you obsess over something you may blind yourself when (if )the opportunity ever arises. Just try not to psych yourself out
Wiggle up to him and ask him if he'd like to explore a heavenly body. If he says yes, you've made it. Take him by the hand and lead him home. On the way you can explain why your body is so heavenly. Have fun!