Hi, I've tried anal masturbation a few times before, but I still have a few questions about it. If you're going to use your fingers, do you need to use a latex glove or anything or will trimming and filing your nails keep you from accidentally hurting yourself? Is saliva (spit) a suitable lubricant? Or do you need something else, and if so, is there anything that you could use that isn't a specialty product that most people don't have in their houses? Is it true that anally masturbating, whether or not you hurt yourself at the time, can lead to you not being able to "hold it" when you get older? (Assuming you're not using huge objects or anything). Any responses are much appreciated. Thanks!
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i guess using a latex glove would be safer but ive never had any problems using my bare fingers. spit is fine to use as long as there is lots of it. its just a bit in convenient because it dries so quickly. i usually use a combination of spit and pre cum. i don't know if masturbating anally will cause any permanent damage but i guess as long as you don't do it to often and don't stretch ur ass too much it cant do that much damage
Here is a short tutorial I typed up a while back. It's how *I* learned.. The key to this is to take your time and go slow. You learn how to control your butt and sphincter muscles. You learn how to RELAX THEM and you get used to the feeling of it all. Anal play for beginners Disclaimer: I am NOT a doctor and I do NOT play one on TV. This is the way *I* learned how to discover anal play. As usual care needs to be practiced. GO VERY SLOWLY. First start off with a TRIMMED index finger. You may even want to put on a latex glove first to help make it even smoother. Use KY or the drug store brand of KY and lube the finger well. Place it VERY GENTLY near the anus and lightly circle the hole with the finger. DON'T INSERT YET. Just circle it for a few minutes. After a few minutes without insert, just put the finger over the anus and gently press a bit without entering. Just apply a bit of pressure. Do this over and over a few times and after a few minutes SLOWLY begin to insert JUST THE FINGER *TIP* in about a quarter of an inch then take it out. Do this a few times then go a LITTLE further in. Repeat this until you have you whole finger in. DO NOT FORCE IT, IF HE OR SHE OR YOU SAYS STOP, STOP! Within a week or so of trying this the person should be fairly used to the finger and inserting and pumping it in and out should become easy. Also try moving the finger around while inserted, back & forth,etc. Orgasms ARE VERY VERY INTENSE when you leave your finger or butt plug or dildo in. Soon you will want to try something slightly bigger than your finger. Try your middle finger or graduate to a SMALL butt plug. Same rules apply to the new toy as did with the finger. Start off using the finger as usual then after getting loose begin with the plug. Plugs have flared bottoms to prevent them from going all the way in. If you graduate to dildos later get ones with a flared base or ones that have the balls at the bottom. This prevents them from slipping all the way in. You don't need a trip to the ER to retrieve it, that would SUCK! After a while you will become very used to anal play and you won't need much time to prep for your session. You'll loosen up very quickly after you learn how to relax your anal muscles. It takes me less than 5 minutes to go from start to riding a 8 inch silicon dildo like a bucking bronco! GITTYUP LITTLE DOGGIE! The key to learning anal play/sex is to TAKE YOUR TIME.
Oh for fuck's sakes. Does pooping a lot lead to your asshole getting stretched out? No? It's a muscle, dude. It doesn't "wear out".
Nice way to put it!! my wife and I stuff all sorts of things in my ass and it stretches gently and comes back just as like nothing happened .. its awesome it opens up and swallows objects, and then goes back to norm.
dont worry about it dude - use a thin vibrator though - it works better and feels better than your finger. and then use a lube like KY jelly. if you are stuck - use olive oil -works just as well
