anyone else have a prolem asking girls out? like i just dont want to ask a straight girl out and have her creeped out like seriously how do u meet girls!?!? (other then friends hooking u up lol or college ha)
Flirting is the usual way to find out if another woman is interested. Try some of the following: Sit near her, see if she moves closer or farther away. If you're bringing her something touch her hand as you give it to her and make eye contact. Compliment her. You look beautiful tonight, great hair, etc. Sit next to her on a couch, if your thighs touch does she let it or does she inch away? Or you could just tell her that you want to see if she tastes as sweet as she looks, that has worked for me once
Eye contact... Has worked for me a couple of times. I was unsure about this girl once and just asked her if she had a bf, she answered no, but there was this one guy... Pff. Or you could go to a gay bar or something.
wear a t-shirt, with this messege written on it, on both the back and front: 'i like girls... want to fuck?' NO, WHATEVER YOU DO... DON'T DO THAT! some gay bashing asshole, might beat the living shit out of you! everyone has given you good ideals on how to hook up.
thanks ...i just fucking hate making chicks uncomfertablelol but those are good ideas not i just need to be unshy! lol haha... i just cant go to clubs cuz im not 21 yet
It's hard to flirt with a woman because you don't really know what her orientation is. If you're just in a store somewhere and see a hot woman.....I have no idea what to tell you to do. I'd just check her out and keep going. I've never been able to flirt with a woman unless I knew she was gay. But if you strongly suspect she is, then do some of the things mentioned already or drop hints about your own sexuality and see how she responds.
And by eyecontact... I mean not stare at the girl.. Haha. I try eyecontact, smile, keep the eye, if she looks away i leave it at that... If she smiles back i try to talk. Though ive always had the luck, the girl takes the hint and reply with a very obvoius hint... You can also ask where the girl hangs out... But you live in the states where the drinking limit is 21... Thats lame... Here it is 18 most places fridays and 20 most saturdays... Though gay places here dont care for ages... Come here and get a gf! Hahahah
this ideal came into my head the other day. i have notice, that both google and yahoo! groups, have groups for gay people to get to know each other, for most cities, and all states in the u.s.a. some of those groups are restricted for only underage people only. no adults allowed. if your in school, you might check into the gay and straight student allance too.
Eye contact , and a big smile have always worked for me. It also kinda weeds out the straight girls because they will either look away , or give you this attitude like , " Who the hell are YOU looking at"
