"i have a horrible mother" club

I don't hate my immediate family.I don't particularly like them either.
They basically betrayed me IMO when I needed backing on sthg.
But they'd only ever support me to be a fucking docctor...Which I'd fucking hate.

For all their pretentiousness, connections and stuff I can't really see how I'm related to two people of fairly low intelligence.Who could've done alot better but were too small minded.

I always used to feel like I'd been kidnapped by them when I was say 3 days old.From more intelligent ( goodlooking) parents.

Maybe its the fact I'm 2 different gene pools mixed ,or a "throwback" to earlier generations?Fuck knows.

 

My mom was and is a saint. My kids' mom, on the other hand, is the Devil's concubine.

 

I actually have the best mother in the world. Even my friends, back at school use to say she was cooler than their mums. I'm starting to appreciate her more now as I get older.

 

then go post in the "i love my mommy" club thread...

lucky

 

i'd come here and bash my mom
she has her issues
but honest to goodness i love her to death
and today is her birthday
and i got her wasted drunk
i love my mummsie
sorry booga

 

i wish i could say i have a love hate relationship.. but i don't.

my biological mother i just don't have a relationship with.. i haven't heard from her in over 2 years. the lady that raised me.. she's just evil...

 

i hate that
mothers are supposed to be amazing
it should be a law or something
booga, can i be your mother?
i'll bake you cookies and take you to the park!

 

my mother is ignorant. i would blame it on her mother being ignorant and raising her with her bullshit racist/homophobic views but my mother tried to push her views on me and it didn't work.

 

Damn! Apparently I was blessed when it came to parents.

 

yes! heres a horrible story about her..

my 11th birthday. she said i was too old to have a party or presents. instead i was forced to go with her and my dad to one of his soccer games... boring! well i was upset and decided to wander around the park.. this just upset me.. i swear there had to be at least 4 separate birthday parties going on there that day. i got yelled at for crying..

 

i'll make you a birthday party...
there will be clowns, a jumping castle and a cake that will have fire works go off beside it but the fireworks will end up blowing up the cake every where and you'll end up covered in cake but that'll start a food fight which will end in a water balloon fight and everyone will laugh and fall into the jumping castle wet and covered in cake

 

OKAY!!!

i can't remember the last time i had a birthday party... i just try to treat myself each year with something special... thats why i like to go to earthdance.. tell a bunch of people it's my birthday and i get love for presents! :grouphug:

 

my father on the other hand is fantastic, despite being an alcoholic.

 

My mom always blamed the weather for not throwing me parties.
My sister always had them and i had to do all the work.

 

spoken like a true genius. Einstein who?

 

jumping castle!?!?!?!

do you mean a MOON BOUNCE!??!??!!?!

 

boog I feel bad about your lack of having birthday parties.

it makes me sad. do you atleast throw them for yourself now that you're old enough to?

please say that you do.

 

no... i do try to do something special for myself though. i did take myself to the earthdance festival twice. i usually buy myself a pomegranate. last year my boyfriend took me to dinner and bought me a bracelet that i love.


a moon bounce house would rule! i love them things.

i'ma be 33 in september... i'm obsessed with the number 3... i should really go out of my way to do something special for me on my birthday.

 

have a party and invite everyone you know! seriously, birthday parties are underrated. obviously presents aren't the main goal nowadays, but just seeing everyone you love/care about!

when's your bday

 

september 18th..

if i had a party... besides my three kids.. i only have like 2 or 3 friends.. (i'm trying to think of a third one actually) i wouldn't invite any family... besides her being a bitch.. they are all on her side.. sorta.. i guess my brothers wouldn't say anything to her about it.. but i'm paranoid about everything (thats why i post so openly online )

i've been thinking about going to earthdance again and this time taking my kids... they'd love it.