Boner Too Sloppy ? Revival Needed

so i have this small problem . well im 21 and im really horney . but lately i dont wheter its because of nervousness or too much of watching porn or maybe the hukkah (sheesha) or the excessive coffee i cant get a proper hard boner.anyways when i watch porn its not really that hard. and even when my girlfriend gives me a bj its hard but not the hard i want it to be. suppose my girlfriend stopped giving me a bj for a min and i went to kiss her till then , then my boner would kind of become slightly softer. i have tottaly given up watching porn for 2 weeks now , plus i hardly have coffee , nor do i do sheesha anymore . Is it a certain period/age im going through now ? i stopped getting morning wood . its not necessarily to get morning wood every now and then right ? has this happened to anyone ?

 

Not at 21. Better check with the doctor. It could be something as serious as high blood pressure.

 

I've heard that smoking can mess things up there...what with the blood and whatnot. Didnt yuo ever see the impotence warnings on smokes? Also read about it on Menshealth too....and overusing caffeine probably doesn't help.

 

it's probably caffeine/smoking/psychological.. try making changes and then see a doc if it doesn't help.

 

err i havent smoked in aged nows . and its not the regular smoking . its the pipe one with the fruit flavours . i guess its some psychological stuff ? and yea ill just go healthy from now on . any other suggestions?