My friend's boyfriend is a complete idiot, and she doesn't seem to see it. He just got out of jail in January. She and I didn't talk for quite a while, and she was already with him before our reunion. He REALLY likes the sound of his own voice, even when he shouldn't be talking. He went on and on in front of my boyfriend about a guy I went out with once, but it didn't work out. He was really main some uncomfortable implications, and my guy doesn't wanna hear about that shit. Even the bartender was commenting on his verbal diarrhea. And he doesn't even treat my friend well. So, basically the guy is a retard, and my question is, do I tell her this? Do I risk losing the friendship again? There is no easy way to tell someone they are dating a loser.
If you're good friends its shouldn't matter. My friend's friend's boyfriend is a complete asshole. He came to a party once and just acted like a total prick, and finally made his girlfriend leave because she wasn't paying enough attention to him (his words). Type of guy who loves himself more than his girlfriend. Well, my friend told her he was a prick and she kind of laughed and agreed. They broke up. Slightly hint to her that he's egotistical, shallow and boring and if she disagrees...agree to disagree I guess. Doesn't mean you guys should stop being friends.
Well, you can tell her. But, sometimes you really need to learn from your own mistakes. The wisest of all people learn from other peoples mistakes, but perhaps your friend is not in that place yet. There is also the potential that you get what you deserve. Seeing as it is your friend, I would hope not, but it could be it. Talk to her, see if she even wants you to intervene, does she? Maybe she doesn't even want your help. In which case you need to move on. But I say give it a shot.
She doesn't know that he's a ass? She's seen all this stuff and still doesn't know? Do your smart friends think you should tell her?
Like CarlFfloydfan saif, ultimately she needs to learn for herself. Chances are she already knows but is in denial. If I were you I would probably just tell her to really think about their relationship and let her know that she deserves the best. Let her figure it out from there, ya know? Just be respectful. : )
he sounds like something worst then a jackass to me. go ahead and tell her BUT (REPEAT, BUT) be political in how you tell her. if you don't understand what i just said then, don't tell her anything! you will most likely fuck up your friendship with her, if you open your mouth.
