Not sure how to feel about this. any advice? Long story short, My wife went out to the movies and lunch with her friend and her husband while I was at work. Now, i have never told her she cant do anything, and i dont ever stop her from having fun, but she didnt even tell me until just as the movie was starting. And to be honest, its not even the movie that bothers me. its the fact that she went with her friend and her husband. It just feels wrong to me. Anyone else experience this? think its wrong? Odd? Hmm.... im confused. thanks for listening.
My husband rarely does anything away from home so if I want to have fun I have to go. I hang with my friend and her husband a lot of times. Maybe it was a last minute deal. Better with her friend and husband than just the friends husband. If your problem with it is not being included let her know. If you don't want to go then let her go. Better she tell you than feels she needs to hide it. I of course don't know the whole story here so I am just speculating.
I don't really see why it would be wrong. If you were at work then not being included can't be the problem. Whats wrong with going to hang out with friends?
I don't really think it was wrong. I think that not telling you was. I would want to find out why you weren't told.
dude...don't listen to all that benefit if the dought garbage...immediately start hiding money from her...cash is best....if possible mortgage the house to the hilt and hide that money too....then....get a shark lawyer...a real shark mother effer...and don't fight for the kids either....you want her to be saddled with those little bastards...there will be plenty of time to reconnect with them later in life...I know what your feeling buddy...my ex-wife went to a movie too..at least thats how it started...soon she was going to the museum..out shopping...a few times she even went out to lunch...I know...I couldnt believe it either....anyway...my heart go's out to you pal....if only women would realize the damage they do to us guys when they do things they enjoy when we are not around........by the way...you didnt say what movie she went to....
Deal with it you control freak. I feel bad for her that she married someone like you, but at least give her some space, she obviously needs it!!