Well Its been a while but finally met a girl I really like. I setup a time that we hung out with some friends in a group and it was a fun time. Anyway I called her once to see how she was the next morning because she got a little to drunk lol. I also called her again to setup another time to hang out and she said sure thing. So the next day I called her twice but no answer. I'll probably call her again in a few days...but when does it get to the point where you wait for them to kinda contact you and make plans or whatever?
Do you text or use facebook? It's probably more casual to try to get a hold of her one of those ways if she missed two calls.
now...now is the point...do not call her ever again..until she calls you..and then act all aloof......no..on second thought...call her every ten minutes until she gets the message....wait...whats the message again...shit.......I know...make her a mix tape[cd] with all sappy love songs and shit...no..no...send flowers with one of those suggestive cards that makes your intentions clear...wait....what are you intentions again.....wrap a love poem around a good sized rock and whip it through her front window....maybe you could say..''call me'' on the note.....
I agree with everyone so far... DO NOT CALL HER AGAIN!!! 2 missed calls and no returned calls? its pretty clear what that means... if i'm into someone I'll answer when they call or call them back at my earliest convenience... just sayin
definitely wait. have patience and they will come to you. im serious. for a while i used to text my boyfriend all the time and he hardly answered. this was in the beginning. now i wait until he texts me and he does several times if i dont answer. hehe playing games is part of it all i guess. all's fair in love and war. so true
what ever you do, don't let on that you like her at all! ignore her. if at all possible, do something to humilate her like fart right when you're passing her in the hallway. women never like guys who are nice to them. they only like dismissive, abusive assholes who will dominate them, treat them like shit, and then dump them.
I bothered a girl like crazy once when I was 18. Now, I cringe at the thought of attempting contact more than twice without a response. But I am glad I don't have to deal with this anymore, with a gf of three years.
ha! last guy who told me he would treat me like a queen wanted to dominate me (read: beat on me) because it turned him on. i told him to take a hike and he married someone who would let him mistreat her and fuck around on her. to each their own. [/quote]
[/quote] ya that sucks..specially the beat on me part.......I was referring to something more along the lines of being nice..also funny and drugs always helps....I've never beat on a lady to and now that i am a little older i truly appreciate a healthy relationship with the babes.......also it kinda looks like you are inferring that when i say queen it is the same as when your abusive boyfriend says queen.....please please dont quote my shit and go off about spousal abuse cause i dont want to be associated with that subject...except to say that people who do it are fucked
