We are both 14, he asked me out about 2 months ago, and I said,"yes." He doesn't really talk to me. Every time he tries to talk to me, he gets all nervous and doesn't say much. We haven't gone on a date yet, and I don't know what's wrong. So I only see him at school, and when I see him, he doesn't talk much. I miss him a lot sometimes. Should I call him? Would that be too clingy or needy? This is the first time anyone has asked me out, and this is the first time he has asked anyone out too. Is he just shy? So should I..."take charge?" I am so confused and I don't really have any guidance, my mom doesn't really help me. Please write.
Be a strong independent woman! It's liberating. First time I asked someone out I was over the moon and it had hardly anything to do with the fact that he said yes. It was easy that time, anyway, because I knew he was going to say yes, and it sounds like he's going to say yes, so don't worry and go for it. You'll feel great for so many reasons afterwards, and it'll give him more confidence. He's probably stressing about it the same way you are - take the initiative and save both of you the stress.
maybe you havent gone out because his parents are strict? :O or his oldschool childish way of going out is seeing eachother at school and thats it, and its a whole new level holding hands... :O yes! i think you should call him. dont worry about thinking thats too clingy, its not - at all. just see whats happening, and mention maybe you should go to a movie sometime. good luck love
He told me yesterday that he isn't allowed to go "out," until high school, but we're both got into the same private high school so... PS if that is really you in your signature, you are gorgeous.
