im a virgin but

u know som times i dnt even know if i want to save it or just fuck any slut out thier!! fuck!!!!!!

 

well dont just go fuck anyone. you dont want stds. so much shit comes from just fucking any person. no one says you have to wait for marriage but why not wait until its someone you at least remotely give a shit about? even if its just a friend. instead of rebelling maybe you want the first time to be somewhat special. better to remember it and do it with someone who knows what theyre doing. it could be nice

 

Follow your heart.

 

bend the bitch over and just go for broke

 

but am not experienced and shes a whore........i think i wont forfill her standards of pleasure....

 

fuck it. just find someone you like that would be able to guide you, show you what she likes.

 

shes a whore all the better 4 u coz why would you give a fuck about
4filling a whores standards dont think about that just do what you feel like, thinking like that can interfere with your PP .
this can be a practice session for you, and anyway you dont need experience it will come naturally .

*Don’t Forget to Use a Condom*

 

thanks and very true btw shes on the pill.

 

msg 11

ignoring that...

multiple times you have went back and forth on this issue, depending on how people respond... you also have made comments that should make you hope none of the women you may meet read this crap....

This is for a lot of people who responded in this...

Sex is not bad...
Sex is not dirty...
Sex is not some magickal act....

Sex is a part of adult life. Thinking that somehow it is wrong that people have had sex before you is just nuts.

As for this idea that I saw mentioned once or twice, that you should have your first sex with a virgin... That would be like going to a brand new in-experienced dentist because you didn'y want someone who had their fingers in others mouths.... or bypassing the surgeon with 30 years of experience for the new one out of school to avoid having hands that have been in other peoples bodies being put into yours.....

This applies to both males and females... find someone who is kind, caring and experienced for your first time. You don't have to love them, they don't have to love you, but each of you should be the type of person that loves themselves. Most importantly, don't go into the situation with false bravado (I've watched 1000's of porns, so I know what I'm doing type of thing).

Approach it as an opportunity to enjoy one of the best gifts humans have ever had and learn.

Jean Auel writes about rites of first passage in her books Earth's Children.... everyone should read them....

 

Dude, so you still haven't fucked her? Are you sure you aint gay bro? If youre scared you wont fulfil her you could do the following. 1.) watch porn and learn the basics on eating pussy and sex postions(not the best way to learn but ya know...fuck it). 2.) if you're afraid of ejaculating too soon, just jerk off and cum say 20-30minutes before your session with the girl. 3.) Drink some beer to reduce anxiety caused by first time having sex.

 

i dnt have her number nor do we work together where i first notice she liked me i passed by like 6weeks ago and can tell she still likes me and no am not gay. Yeh i should wank off b4 doing anything but i dnt thing i can set a date on when where fucking but i think i can last at 20mins and HELL NO am no drinking b4 sex i will get whisky dick then......i dnt we get horny when am drunk

 

i second, third and fourth this. i read Valley of Horses for the first time when I was 12, and then i found out all about masturbating. i was 16 when i lost my virginity, and i never regretted it.
the earth's children series is one of my favorites, it gave me so much knowledge, but if you just want a quick run through of sex, start with VoH

You can wait to have sex, or you can get it now and 'get it over with.' losing your virginity doesn't make you a man (or woman) it doesn't make you good in bed, being good in bed takes practice, and care for the other person's pleasure. if you don't care about her, don't do it, but find someone you are comfortable with.

if you are worried about other guys being inside her, the response should be get over it. you should not be prejudiced against people, especially for something they can't change. Plus, pussies clean themselves, all those little stretchy folds are lubed with happy bacteria that fight off infections (why antibiotics can cause yeast infections, antibiotics kill the happy bacteria too) and most women do clean themselves. thoroughly.
the biggest problem you face OP is lack of knowledge. most men don't know the physical workings of women, and are damn near forbidden to learn. i think its wrong, and men should be taught.

and if you are still worried about a previously plowed pussy, look on craigslist for a virgin you can fuck with no attachment, or find someone to truly love and lose it to them. but learn about sex and you'll be better prepared when the time comes, and you feel comfortable. definately read Jean Auel's books, and maybe then Jacqueline Carey? you can learn a whole new side of sex if you read Kushiel's Dart.

 

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People tell me A and B
They tell me how I have to see
Things that I have seen already clear
So they push me then from side to side
They're pushing me from black to white
They're pushing 'til there's nothing more to hear

 

Well man lemme say I know exactly how you feel. and I know it's not too fair cause I think this is a standard set for women mainly. I mean, I know what you mean- like someone else has been inside her is weird...

But you and me both need to get over that. If you really want to get it out of the way, I guess go fer it. But I think you need a secure relationship- you seem like a dude that values loyalty and all that, since you think her having sex with other people is weird.

I think if your in love with someone, she'll show you the ropes for all that stuff, and your first time will be a lot more comfortable and memorable!