Okay so let me start off saying that im 14 and a stud.(dress like a guy) my family and friends all know this. my friends and sisters dont have a problem with me. but my uncle and grandmother do and seeing that i live with them it is near impossible to ignore them. they hate the fact that im stud. but at one point in time my uncle said that it does not matter which section my clothes came from it was that they are too baggy. so i thought okay cool. ill just get clothes that are smaller in size. one time when we went to the mall we were looking at clothes from the guys section. andd he did not have a problemm with it but now that the school year is coming to a close he says he is buring all of my old clothes and that all of the new clothes he will buy will be coming from the girls section. i donnt know wwhat to do because he is being so irrational. i feel so uncomfortable in clothes that are tight and girly. i i really need some advice at this poi point. so please help. he even told me if i didnt like it i could get the hell out. buy
just tell him you wont where them. its not right that he should tell you what to where, its your life, and youll live it how you want. tell him this respecfully, but tell him firmly, and tell him its better than going out and getting hi and drunk and all that if you gota, but again, be nice about it if you can, and im sure you can get him to understand.
ask him where all this is coming from.. given that he is okay with it at the start, it is quite possible that someone had convinced him that he should do something about your wardrobe.. tell him that you are not doing anything wrong... your clothes is a part of who you are.. hopefully you'd be able to reason with him more effectively if you know where he is coming from....
Point out that boys clothes would probably make him a lot less uncomfortable than girly booty shorts and crop tops with nothing on underneath ...........he will get the picture !
comprimise!!!!! tell him youll wear girl jeans with guy shirts and tighter shirt with guy or not as baggy pants
