it can be a persons rise and downfall- only in some magical world does it actually work out-- people "think" there in love but really arent. hence all the divorces. i have fallen for girls b4 but will NEVER fall for another girl again.. a girl will never have my heart again
lol, the fact that you think you can control it ("a girl will never have my heart again") means that you havent really been in love. You were one of those that "thought" they were. In reality, someday a girl will have your heart again, and you wont have the slightest thing to say about it. /hopelessly romantic
Agreed! It does take some maturity, which n this day and age is definitely in short supply, especially amongst us men. The louder a guy proclaims his maturity, the more dangerous the possible relationship. I know 'cause I thought I was in love once. I was really in heat, but she married me, found out my level of 'boyhood,' and made my life miserable, trying to grow me up. Now that I'm a bit older I might try again, but she better be pretty special. A friend told me it is all in the convenience of the relationship:she has your kids, you support her, you both raise them. Good sex is rare, but worth the wait. You just make up your minds to get along. Sounds useful, if I can't find a true love. One way or t'other I'm about ready for a lasting relationship. I'm gonna read that sentence about being ready again - may not hit the 'post' button. Yeah, I believe it.....
the only way i can control it when it happens to me is by doing things like moving away from the area, never leaving my house, get fat and ugly, etc. love is a bitch. especially since you don't always fall in love with someone who's gonna be good for you. people who try to control me aren't good for me. that includes most of the males of the species. :tongue:
Once again, love has been misunderstood by the young and inexperienced...True love is NOT about you. It is to be given freely with no expectation of a return from the person you give it to. This is why most of us never experience true love because there is the complete absence of fear in love, as in your fear of getting hurt by another person. Finally, if you got hurt by being in love you were expecting to receive the exact kind of love you mistakenly thought that you were giving to the other person in the first place. There is joy and there is pain. Love is the ultimate expression of joy. Fear is the ultimate form of pain. Therefore, the joy of love is free of the pain of fear. Never say never. There are so many beautiful people in this world and more love to be shared each and every day so be very thankful for the love you receive no matter the source. After all there is truly only one source from which all love flows. Become attuned to that source and the love you give will be perfected as well.
Can you really call it love when you're thinking about bumping uglies together half the time? Guys are more about sex, Girls are more about Love?, Is that the way it really is? Or is it just that they have to spend 6 months training their guy to last more than 5 minutes
Spoken like someone who has no earthly idea what a 'man' is... It is understood that due to the prevalence of the idiot male man-child archetype in modern culture that most females in western society have no clue as to what aspects constitute true manhood and are simply attracted to parts of themselves reflected in the males they encounter. Woman can be a vain, selfish creature of mercurial moods and selfish demeanor if her passions are not subjugated by her greater purpose of being partner to her mate and mother to her children. Males are equally stunted in their development without acquiring strength and independence through responsibility, duty and the capacity for leadership; these traits are prerequisites for the roles of husband and father. False expectations abound due to the misconception that love is something to be possessed or a commodity to be traded for affection, attention or in the worst cases material gain. The greatest power of love is in the giving. However, if you have no love for yourself, how can you possibly give to another that which you do not have in abundance for yourself already? It is not vanity to love oneself; it is the first essential step to developing the capacity to truly love others and be loved by others.
^^^^ strength, independence, responsibility, duty and leadership? Yawn. Ok, maybe I'm just a glass half full kind of guy, but thats the way it looks to me, sex is everyones favourite thing (women just as much as men), just we all have to go around pretending thats not the case for the sake of the kids
Love's just one of those things...it just comes to you when you least expect it. So don't give up, but don't waste your time looking for it. It will find you when it's good and ready!
That's odd...I actually thought the topic of this thread was love; sex can be one of many ways to express love, but does not constitute the only reason that love exists. As far as 'kids' are concerned (just to humor you and the curious tangent you seem to have wandered off on), they have a right to know about the proper expression of sexuality as soon as they can understand it. Lots of problems would be solved if sex weren't such a 'big deal' and people respected the act for what it really is, not something to be feared or be ashamed of. Surely your time on earth has resulted in more than such a superficial view of the true meaning of love?
^^^^ Love, Sex....can the two ever really be separated? Or more specifically, can the physical rewards of love ever truly be separated from the physical rewards of sexual attraction? You've got all 5 senses working together, often subconsciously: Smell/Taste: The often subconscious effect of pheremones is still present in bonds that are seemingly not of a sexual nature Hearing: Triggers to the brain in hearing a familar pitch working not that much differently from hearing a pitch from a suitable mate Vision: Same again, Triggers to the brain with eye contact from someone familiar not that different eye contact with a potential mate. Touch:Same again Then there is the brain/body all the little chemicals running around in side us that are triggered to establish bonds, when bonds are established. Memories resurfacing from previous positive encounters when we encounter someone similar again. And on and on and on. Even the act of giving love unconditionally to another and not expecting anything in return, there is a reward there, a warm fuzzy feeling that we are selfless The OP says "Love sux....it's the truth" is he talking about Love that doesnt involve bumping uglies with someone? Is he including the love for his mum? "Love for his mum sux, its the truth", No of course he's not....something more along the lines of "Love sucks when she won't put out enough....its the truth!"
come on !! i never afraid that i cant find a god girl .despite of i got hunt and feeling distressed .but i belive i will get a good and gentle girl Good lucky !
