The passing away of someone you love - my mother...

Exactly 3 years ago at this date my mom passed away.
I'm sure it's happened to a lot of people in this forum. I mean - people pass away and it's normal - well it happens.
Did you ever have someone you loved and they passed away? It's a feeling that stays with you always. You don't get over it - you learn to live with the pain.
There are things that made this even sadder though.
My mom knew she was dying and didn't tell anyone. To top it, she got herself an extra job so she could pay for her burial. My father was jobless and she didn't have an insurance.
With some of the money - she actually bought some gifts for us and always showed a happy face. We found it strange though how much she didn't really take care of herself anymore. Her hair became gray - wouldn't buy herself new clothes but buy us some. When we found the truth - we were really sad. Of course - I would be even sadder if anything of this was true cause I just made it up so you could just read one more useless post of mine. I actually was brought up by my grandma and never knew my parents.

 

Could you use anyone else as an example besides your mother???
What a jerk...

 

my GOODNESS. sheesh. sad to mockery to sad again.

 

Yes, I could use someone else.
Yes, I am a jerk. I just wish you wouldn't say it - could you keep that information for yourself?

 

You're not being very clear... Am I a jerk or not???

 

for a moment i felt pity for you.

good job.

 

Thanks.

 

I cant wait for my mom to die, so I dont think you're a jerk. If you had said you puppy, or kid, Id be sad.

 

not. i just got took.

i've never lost anyone super duper close. grandparents and a close cousin. none of whom i expected to be long in this world anyway. i'm REALLY not looking forward to it. my loved ones are everything to me.

 

I'm sorry. I love my mom so much and couldn't imagine. If you want anyone to talk to, on here or on the phone. I am here and am a really good listener.

 

I can't even count on anonymous immature people on the net to call me a jerk. The quality keeps going down.

 

i'm not anonymous and despite how long you've been gone, i know your humor better than that.

 

You may be a good listener but you're not a good reader - you should go back and read the post to the end...

 

I stopped reading at the let her hair go grey, too hard to read. Everyone in my family who has cancer let that happen as they passed away and it hit home.
I know you can't go around posting, anticipating everyone's trigger, but your post was kinda messed up.

 

whate verr god this sucks

 

Well - no one's calling me a jerk anymore???

Ok - give me a few minutes to create "my dad died thread"...

 

lol. :cheers2: parry-riposte.

 

I don't think you're a jerk. I just am unable to find humour in jokes like this.

 

Someone stole the pie off my windowsill,my car blew up,my dog got run over,my cat ran away,my grandmother shot my grandfather,my house burned up,my dad killed himself,my wife runoft with an ex-con and is now living in a crack house,my appendix burst just after the heart attackmy kids robbed a bank and are going to jail.----------shit,you're an amateur,boy.

 

Scatcho my asso.