Whats the point of getting our hopes up?

Why does one have the ability and hope and belief to think positive, when their dreams usually get crushed and not what they expected? Why do we get our hopes up just to get heartbroken in the end? Whats the point of even thinking positive?
(I'm am relating this to my crush and fate/destiny between us).

 

"Nobody ever died of a broken heart"

But then again.... "If you never take things seriously you never get hurt"



I can't speak from experience. I've never been "in love". All I know is there are many happy couples who have true love, and have had for years. Don't give up hope.

Don't be superficial. Don't be greedy. Don't be with someone to be with someone...... Actually, do. It's fun But don't say I Love You when you don't mean it. Don't have high expectations. Don't expect them to change.

Be open. Be loving. Be carefree. Don't expect it to fail. Don't expect to get married.

THINK POSITIVE

And be happy.

 

it just happens and if it don't it don't.

 

Because otherwise, you have no shot at getting what you want.

 

i'd say you're a very wise person

 

And for God's sake, dont drop the M word within the first couple of months

 

Dude I love you!

 

What M word?

 

Marraige comes to my mind.

 

Bringing up marriage in the first few months is a guaranteed pink slip. It reeks of playing a manufactured nice girl tap dance routine in order to implement a later control freak agenda.

 

Bingo.

This is why you gotta stay positive in all aspects of life.

A positive state is so much more empowering than a negative one. If all you see is misery, all you're gonna get is misery. If all you see is awesomeness, well, you might not always get awesomeness, but most of the time you will.

 

Cute sig pic LauraMay. What is making you scrunch your nose? I am going to guess someone is about to throw a rotten tomato in your face.

 

Never fall in "love." It's never worth it. ALL relationships die eventually. Never buy into that Disney, Hallmark make believe bulls***. It's manufactured to rake in the big bucks and leave us miserable.

 

My Guess Is, Somebody Just "Passed Wind"....



Cheers Glen.

 

What makes you say that? It isn't true.

 

Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it... It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don't risk anything, you risk even more.

Being crushed, in the end makes you stronger. Believe me, i've been brutally crushed on hopes and dreams - just bare through it. It really will work out in the end. Even if not with the person you were hoping in the beginning, but you will be happy with something or someone else.

 

Well-said, especially for someone your age. And I love your Alice In Wonderland quote.

 

thank you so much

 

Couldn't be more right

 

Perhaps I was wrong ^