I fucked my girlfriend's ass and she cried.

We'd been talking about anal for a while, I was gently coaxing her along as she didn't really like the idea at first but started to warm up to it.

Last night, after some Japanese light beer, she decided she wanted to try it. Of course, I was ecstatic. First I started off fucking her pussy for a while, then we busted out the lube and eased it into her ass as slowly and gently as possible.

Now let me just say I do NOT have a big dick, by any stretch of the imagination. But she does have a tight ass. And she just wasn't used to the sensation. So it was painful for her.

Well since I had already been fucking her pussy for a while I was about ready to cum, and came within a couple of minutes. I went to the bathroom to wash up and when I came back to the bed she was lying there in tears. I cuddled with her and promised her we wouldn't do anal anymore, but I was happy she was at least willing to try it for me. I felt like kind of a dick for making her cry, but at the same time she was a bit of a pussy too - I mean hell, I've taken objects up my ass much bigger than my own dick, so it's not like I don't know the feeling. Of course, men have the prostate so it's more pleasurable for us too.

Anyway, that's my story of how I fucked my girlfriend's ass and she cried.

 

man, you didnt even put a finger in there first, or a dildo or something? Just warm it up a bit, get it relaxed?

We've been working up to it very slowly, with small to larger plugs/dildos, up to ones that roughly match my size. With each new toy, it starts again - hurts a bit going in maybe, cant be thrusted yet... a few weeks later, I can roger her ass good with that one, so we move up to the next, which hurts a bit going in and cant be thrusted yet... and so on.

Hopefully this month I'll finally get in there for my Special Birthday Sex!

 

You sound like an amazing boyfriend.

 

Actually I did use a finger while I was applying the lube.

We talked about it afterwards and decided part of the problem was that she was tensing the muscles and instinctively pushing out instead of just relaxing. Common beginner's mistake.

 

It was your mistake IMO. I mean, I'm not trying to get down on you or make you feel bad - making her cry already did that I'm sure - but you should have read up some, and approached it with a bit more patience, so she knew what to do already by the time you got to actual anal sex.

 

My wife isn't really into anal. So what brand of Japanese light beer did you drink? Sounds like that did the trick.

 

good question actually...

:cheers2:

 

How about anal in the shower with shampoo as lubrication? It's cleaner...

 

I have to think that you have never actually done that, because I have, and I know what happens when you use shampoo as a sexual lube.

DO NOT USE SHAMPOO AS A SEXUAL LUBE. EVER.

 

Haha - it was called "Sapporo". We had it at a Japanese sushi restaurant near my apartment.

 

she probably wasn't at all relaxed which wouldn't help. the first time i tried it with my ex i was so tense and it made it 10 times worse.

 

Hey, at least she was willing to try it. Anal isn't for everybody.

 

Sapporo+anal sex=LULZ. Got it.

Women cry when they SEE my dick, nevermind what happens when I actually put it in.

 

You have right I have never tried shampoo as a lubricant but I'm exchanging dirty messages with some guy who I'm going to see in the summer and he told me that it's better that way... why do you say not to try it? Is it the PH?

 

well hmmmm... I would say just leave the poor girl alone lol but if she's willing to keep at it let her know it always hurts the first time no matter who you are.. but even I who has a boyfriend with a huge freakin dick can find lots of pleasure in it.. it just takes a little while to get used to it.. plus you can have some pretty amazing orgasims with anal..

 

Post back when you fuck your girlfriend in the ass and you cry.

I have. Sometimes the ass is too tight.

 

oy vey .... just talk to her about it over coffee , she'll try it again. discuss it while NOT having sex hun, and get her in the shower , soap her and you up. it will be fun. good clean fun lol slides easier too.. ..

 

lmao.. I know it's not funny but come on....

 

who drinks japanese beer ?

 

Ammonium Lauryl Sulfate is why. Its what makes shampoo foam up, and it can be a real killer if you get it in a bad place and/or cant clean it. If you can be ABSOLUTELY sure you rinse it all off, you might get away with it once or twice. If ANY is left behind, you get drying, cracking skin, rashes, inflammation, excessive mucus production, etc. Its not fun, believe me.