Giving Oral

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by TealOrchid, Mar 10, 2009.

  1. TealOrchid

    TealOrchid Member

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    So I would say I am not that sexually experienced. I have given one blow job, and yes, I did make him cum. The problem I have is that I have a very small mouth haha yes i know that sounds silly, but it's the truth. While I went down on him I concentrated on the tip of his penis and used my hand to stroke his shaft... but i could barely fit my mouth over his head. My main reason for writing this post is that I am wondering is this alright with guys? He said it felt good, but I am still a little concerned. Is there something else I could do to pleasure my man with my mouth? Maybe i shouldn't even be worried about this, but honestly I am self conscious about it because I do want to pleasure him well.
     
  2. Lennon_Skye

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    Personally - and this is just my opinion - why on earth would you want to?

    I dunno, I just see oral as slightly degrading, and what does it do for the person giving oral? Absolutely nothing.

    Although that doesn't answer your question :p

    He did say it felt good, and if you trust him enough to give him oral, then I suppose you have to trust him to be honest too.

    If it really bothers you that much, then ask him and talk to him about it. I think that it might mean something to him too if you have a talk about it.

    Hope I helped,
    L_S
     
  3. sophieclair

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    What makes giving oral sex degrading? Your pleasuring your partner and most people enjoy that. Usually doing something degrading means doing something thats gross and I see nothing gross with the male or female parts. If it were poo or something like that thats degrading.
     
  4. TealOrchid

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    Thank you for the advice :) well, i enjoyed giving him oral. This is a guy i care about, and he has good personal hygiene. Otherwise this wouldn't have happened, heh. Yes, i will talk to him about it, it does sound like the best idea.
     
  5. Lennon_Skye

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    Glad I could help :)
     
  6. wrathofjade

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    It is in no way degrading. some people get off on giving their partner pleasure. Like I get super turned on when giving a blow job. My guy gets hard licking my pussy.
     
  7. mdro

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    I get hard when I am licking pussy, I enjoy it very much.
     
  8. bucfan

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    The best part of getting oral is when my gf concentrates on the tip, while stroking the shaft its great. But something else u could try is licking the shaft slowly up to the tip and maybe play with his balls a little
     
  9. sith1

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    mmmm, blowjob!
     
  10. TealOrchid

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    So i have another question. I used t have a tongue ring and took it out a few months after. While I had it I didn't get any action, and had to take it out because i got surgery. Well I gave him head and then I got my tongue ring back a short while after. So anyway, I am wondering guys... How do tongue rings feel with oral? Are they amazing or just okay? Im very curious. Im excited to try this out on him because i have not had the pleasure of doing so yet.
     
  11. bucfan

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    if you can barly get his head in ur mouth im not sure that it will really matter
     
  12. sophieclair

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    thats a good point with something else taking up your mouth and you can barely get it in your mouth already. It might make giving oral alot more unpleasant for you.
     
  13. TealOrchid

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    Dammit, you just may be right :(
     
  14. sophieclair

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    you can always give it a try
     
  15. sg girl

    sg girl Member

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    lick his taint
    massage his balls
    suck on the head
    stroke the shaft
    basic blowjob moves duh
    dey always work
    oh n try a pepermint candy with champagne
     
  16. Shale

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    No, nothing degrading about giving pleasure to another person. :cool:

    I have had my wife nearly crush my head with her thighs while I was going down on her, and there is just something about having a long, thick, hard cock in your mouth and know the guy is really enjoying your sucking, licking and stroking to heighten your own pleasure.

    I don't have a small mouth like the OP, and can deep-throat guys which I suppose is facefucking and they do like it. But sometimes a guy with a thick cock who doesn't get off quickly will tire my jaw muscles before we are done. Bottom line tho with most guys; getting done is fun.

    As for what it does for the person giving oral? It is exciting! It makes my cock hard seeing another beautiful hard cock; makes me want to slip my mouth over it. I particularly love the sight of uncut men and love sliding that skin back (sniffing behind the head) before licking and sucking it.

    But, that's just me, I've been known to lick assholes. :eek:
     
  17. Stephy in wonderland

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    I've never given a blowjob before but I have a small mouth too! I don't really have any advice for you, I just wanted to let you know that your not the only one with this problem.
     
  18. nldn

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    Tongue rings can be felt, though for me it was not a great deal different. Technique is most important regardless.
     
  19. chrisare

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    tealOrchid, did you swallow?
     
  20. TealOrchid

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    heh yes i did swallow
     

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