would you have date someone who has herpes?

Thank you.

 

im the most normal person i know

 

You are so hard up for friends that you're willing to hang out with yourself???

 

yes


we have the most incredible mind blowing sex

 

That's what all my imaginary fuck buddies say about me! What are the chances...?

 

maybe they are the same


they do get around from what they tell me

 

Just great. So now I'm going to get Virtual Herpes. Fuck.

 

KJ, lets cancel that online 3-way that you PMed me about.

 

but if I'm not having an outbreak, it will be harder for me to spread it


although it is still possible

 

I have been outed! Do you think my anti-virus software will work on this?

 

not if you're using Norton

 

Too late. You should have used a latex firewall.

 

God damn it. I knew I shouldn't have been typing under the influence.

 

No.

 

probably not, but it could happen if i really, really cared about them.

 

wow, better not touch someone with stds cause you might get one ...

 

I don't think the insinuation was that you were ignorant but that the topic you initiated will cause others to show theirs- which I tend to agree with.

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Intimacy has a prerequisite of trust IMO--- and trust is truly no a default setting... respect, yes but if I were in the "meat market" I would desire someone who was sensible enough to expect that I'd get a current test to verify beyond my own word that I was clean and who would willingly reciprocate. If something showed up, I'd want it to be treated so I wouldn't be sharing anything unwanted with someone I cared about.

For dating only purposes I really wouldn't care one way or another... but happily this piece of flesh is off the market!

 

When I was 7 years old, playing with my Superman figures - I thought 20 years old were old farts - that my grandma was probably gonna die in 2 or 3 days. Life was great.

When I was 20 I had my own place, I used to do a lot of weights - I was on top of the World. I thought I was a fool when I was 7 to think it was cool and that when I'd be 30 I'd have to slow down and prepare to put money aside for my future funerals.

When I was 30 I bought a house with my girlfriend, developped my own tastes - which wine I prefer or not. I thought that 20 had been nice but that I was only a pup at that time. Forty looked bad though - it was the last few years I'd be young.

Forty-two today. I wouldn't want to go back to 30 and fight my way thru life. I appreciate that I can be comfortable in dealing with many problems that life throws at me. I think when I'm 50 - it'll simply be somthing else.

So - every age brings good and bad. You have to do the best with what you have - you don't have a choice anyway. ...and it would be pretty pathetic to spend life thinking of the past like a forgotten hollywood has-been star. Sure, I had a little more hair in my 20s, 2 wrinkles less but I tried to stay in shape - did some mistakes but in the end, I know that the goal is to aim for what's good.

My grandma, who's gone today, finished her days in an old age house. There was this couple - married, still alive in their 80s - I swear - it's the most beautiful couple I ever saw in my life (and not just because of my age fetish ). That really was true love. Not the kind that at 14 we write a letter to someone that we'll love them forever and the week after, we recycle the text for another person... Strangely, the lady died first and the man died like 8 months later. They said he had a blood vessel burst in his head but I know otherwise: he never died, he "left" to rejoin his wife.

So, please dimiss this post - I hate to sound normal...

 

Never

 

I think folks with one word responses should elaborate.

Its like, OMG, if I touch someone with a disease I might get it...

Thanks SF for clarifying. A lot of ignorance still does exist indeed. I mean I am glad I don't have anything or I would be extremely depressed seeing this topic.