Y I would never want 2 have a daughter

after reading some of those girls first time posts --giving head-swallowing-cherry pop--answers like-10, 11, 12--thats fucked up

i am in no way putting down those girls at all!!!!!!-

but girls r starting young these days-obviously- and thats y i would never want one -im not even a father- but the worst fear for anyman is his 12 yo daughter being busted already--thats really gotta suck 4 a father.

can any guy on this forum be ok with a 12yo busted daughter?

and i wouldnt want my 12 yo boy having sex either-2b fair cuz 12 yo should be worring about toys, sports and comics not sex

im just saying its the most heartbreaking thing that could happen 2 a father-and i aint never wan2 experience it-

if I had a daughter i know she'll b a freak like me--and that scares the shit outta me

 

LOL, so naive, you think thats the scary part

What about when she's 6 and you have to train her out of grinding on your leg

 

^ ewww eww eww

 

Busted, eh?

How very right-wing extremist of you. You remind me of my father.

"If you're not a virgin, you're worthless."

 

If I have a daughter, I'm not gonna let boys anywhere near her. I'll be sitting in a rocking chair on the front porch with a sawn off shot gun 'watchu want boy?".

 

thats a term all guys use left or right
did your dad actually say that!? cuz thats not what im saying at all- im just saying any guy knows the day of his daughters "defloration" is the wost day for any dad. any father or guy who isnt still knows this

but if it was my daughter i would use a more suttle term.

 

He doesn't have to be an extremist just for not wanting to have children screwing around. If they are not a virgin before they enter their teens, then something is very wrong.

 

Don't worry, there is a great chance that you'll never know what is she doing

 

I have a 2 year old daughter. If I thought the only thing she will do with boys will be learn how to fuck, I would be loosing a lot less sleep. I'm much more worried about her getting into a fast car with some 16 year old dumbass, with his bottle of liquor and his bag full of some kind of dope that none of us know what it does, 'cause the chemists won't invent it for another 10 years. The fumbling around in the back seat & steaming up the windows part of that situation is not the part that might get her killed.

 

Being ignorant to young women's sexuality is dangerous. I lost my virginity at 14, I was on the pill at that point because my mom wasn't going to let me get pregnant young. If you teach your child how to be SAFE while having a sex life then I think their sex life is probably one of the last things to worry about.

 

I remember the sage advice my father gave to me about sex.

"Son, if I ever find out that you're having sex before marriage, I'll kick you in the ass so hard you won't even think about sex again".

He also gave this advice to my sister. Not like she needed it. She's a virgin, and she's gonna stay a virgin for a long time.

I look at it this way, in relation to me ever having a daughter. It doesn't matter what you say. If they want to have sex with someone, they're gonna do it. As long as you teach them about pregnancy prevention, and you don't yell at them and threaten them, they will make the decision that works for them, and all you can do is hope they listened. That's all you can do.

 

ya know what id have 2 bribe a daughter - any car she wants if she soent get poked till she 18--if till 21 then a fuckin house and car--think about it this way u girls loose your virginity to some douche bag-- so atleast she could regret 4 the rest of her life choosing 2 min sex w/a douchbag over a porsche/ mercedes

thats how i would play it

 

thats what scares me- u girls r crafty --if i was a father and found out my daughter was having sex id boot her ass outta the house--

 

Man, teens are gonna fuck. But you have to let them make up their own minds about it. You can teach them not to be stupid about it, and you can teach them about birth control and making sure that they know what they are getting into, but that's all you can do. Bribes won't work, because what are you gonna do? Force them to go to a doctor every month to check if their hymen has been broken yet? And threats won't work, because all they gotta do is run away. Just teach them, and hope they make the right choices.

 

so you'd give a car so she won't have sex? or after shes 18 and is a virgin?

if its so she won't have sex, then way to give her a place to have sex man. girls will be girls as boys will be boys, if she wants to do it, shes gonna do it. and don't waste your money if shes 18 and tells you shes s virgin. my parents didn't find out i wasn't a virgin for 3 years, and they only found out because i told them.

and don't be booting her out of the house. would you want to be booted out for doing something instinctual? you don't know much about women, then. she's gonna do it whether you tell her not to or not, and telling her not to is gonna make her want to do it even more. just educate her.

 

That is easily the most ignorant thing I've ever seen on this forum. You wouldn't do the same for a son? I'm no feminist, but that is fucking absurd. I take it you'd be egging your son on to "become a man" and such, yet you'd PAY your daughter to not have sex? And who's to say that EVERY GIRL decides to lose her virginity to "some douchebag?" Perhaps instead of forbidding your daughter to do things, you educate her on how to make good decisions? That's the SAME theory my father buys into, and it DOESN'T DO A DAMNED THING. It looks like you have some reality issues that you need to cope with, hopefully before you bring any children into your charge.

Your children's sex life is none of your business [at a reasonable age, of course, age of consent in most states being 16], let alone something you can change with fucking bribes. My mother was quite upset when she found out I wasn't a virgin at 16, but then she realized I was being very responsible about it, I was in a long-term relationship and was on the pill, and she backed off. It's a NORMAL FUCKING PART of human life.

 

I'm not talking about pre-teens. I'm talking about normal, functional teenagers. He expects any daughter he has to NEVER have sex, he wants to BUY his daughter's virginity with cars. That is beyond asinine, that is the American version of right wing Islamic extremism.

My dad always said if he found out I wasn't a virgin, he'd break my neck, he'd step on my head, he'd kill me, etc etc etc. I'm nineteen now, and according to him, I'm STILL not "allowed" to talk to guys, but instead of getting a car for doing so, I get to keep my life.

Needless to say, this approach is a complete failure, you will only breed contempt for you in your daughter's heart.

 

This topic is hypocritical to say the least...So, let me understand: You are worried about your own daughter doing the same things that you've convinced other peoples' daughters to do with you? Where was your respect for the children of other people when you were fucking them?

I'm not wishing it on you, but trust me, your attitude is going to likely result in your worst fears coming true...

The first thing you do with your children is LOVE them unconditionally(I don't even have kids and I know that)...Your best chance is to show your daughter, throughout her formative years, how she should be treated by respecting all the women you know and love. You'll be the first man in her life, so don't miss the chance to be the best man in her life; set the standard by which all other men will be judged. She'll come to understand that and have higher expectations for the men she encounters later on. She'll be less likely to 'give it up to some douchebag'...

Sadly, it's possible that you don't have that capacity...Fatherhood is no joke, and daughters can make or break you, especially when things go wrong. It will truly be nobody's fault but yours.

 

lol- geez everbody's ready to crucify me cuz i said " I to protect her from boys-meaning getting fucked then thrown out like thrash " so i f i had a daughter i would do anything i could to make sure that doesnt happen and im the one who's evil?

and a daughters sex life is their parents business as long as shes having sex in their home outside their house -its her own business

fathers answer this--

r u ok with your daughter having sex in your bed and in your house?
do u care if a guy has sex w/her and then throws her out out like trash?

all im saying a GOOD father -watches over his daughter-- ones that dont know how 2b a parent let them do whatever the hell they want

so if i was a father i would protect my daughter -im sucha bad man

this topic isnt suppose 2b contoversial-but hey whatever

 

No, I don't believe anybody is ready to crucify you for saying this, as this is the first time in the thread you have said it. It's been more about how bad it will make you feel if you find out your daughter got laid. Not about protecting her, but about protecting your feelings.