hey.... ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and have called a break for a week.. lately we have been taking our tierdness and stress out on one another and have been annoying him. its lead to me pushing him away so much he is no longer in the mood for closeness such as sex, cuddles, kisses and communication... if we communicate its very hard and short.... so sunday i called a break for a week he recently text my friend after she asked him how we are he repleyd "to be honest i really dont know, ive been so tierd and working so hard lately its made me act a bit funny" i felt arrghhh as he doesnt know if were cool or not and then i felt like hmmmm his aware that he has been funny towards me and things have been awkward.... just to give him some space. im wondering what can i do? is it just a sign that were both confussed and need to just chill out and chat?
I think relationships are all hogwash. Maybe its time to see if you can be content with yourself even if your alone.:cheers2:
communicate communicate communicate!! you are never going to know how eachother truely feels unless you have an open and honest discussion. let him know that you feel he's distant and that you're taking your stress out on eachother. maybe find ways to meditate together, go on walks, something to bring the closeness back. but first things first-talk it out. good luck little lady!
try a bar. if you wear a short skirt, you will usually get hit on no matter what you look like. all kinds of guys go to bars. go for the ones that order the more expensive mixed drinks. they are usually the ones with money. or they are gay. good luck!
