Maybe she doesn't like the taste? Have you asked her why she doesnt do it? I really need more information before I can offer you any advice.
I agree, maybe she doesnt like the taste, I won't do it either for that reason. But I have sanitation issues so, maybe she does to? Doesnt like the feeling of it being dirty or something? Who knows. But if it bothers you talk to her about and see if you can come to an understanding and/or compromise. Good luck!
My wife just doesn't like the taste and texture. She'll take it once in blue moon to please me, but frankly, I don't enjoy it as much knowing she doesn't like it. So she sucks me off, and before I cum, I tell her and she finishes by jerking me off. Would I rather cum in her mouth? Sure. But I get to cum on her, usually her tits. Or she presses my cock against her lips or face -- whatever. Or I jerk it until I can get it inside her. I'm not complaining.
You can always make it taste better with sweets and juices (pineapple juice is suppose to be the best) And cut down on salts and proteins.
I like to swallow, but I think that you should either improve your pussy licking skills or employ them more. If your nickname is tornado tongue then even a girl who doesn't like it will feel guilted into doing it!
You can have an orgasm without coming. Just before you're about to come press real hard with a couple fingers on the place between your a-hole and your balls. There's a vessel that carries the goop in there under the muscle and it can be blocked. It's kinda tricky but practice makes perfect and it will do you no harm.
You can also ejaculate without having an orgasm. By using my 'Dribbler' technique. This is very similar to the famous 'Stop - Go' technique, except that it takes it that little bit further, which can take a great deal of practice & much more self control. Masturbate to the point where you can get to feel when the semen starting to rise in that moment before you hit the orgasm, at which point stop all contact with the penis, allowing the semen to escape under its own power. Because it doesn't have the force of orgasm behind it, it only dribbles out (hence the name I've given it). Then, because you haven't yet reached the stage of orgasm, after a few moments to let things recover, you can continue the session & repeat the action to ejaculation as many times as you can manage (using the semen from each successive ejaculation as lube). My personal best is 10 times, but when you reach the point at which you can't hold back any further, the ultimate orgasm is mind blowing, albeit fairly dry by this stage.
Talk to her about it and be patient. My wife and I were married for a few years before she felt comfortable with swallowing. She would let me cum into her mouth and she would then let the cum dribble slowly out of her mouth. I always thought that was pretty darn sexy. Then one day, she swallowed the entire load and now can't get enought. Wife now says she wished she had started swallowing years ago.
"Not liking the taste" doesn't really make sense as an excuse if she's taking it in her mouth at all (and then spitting). You still taste it either way.. in fact, might taste it even less if you swallow it straight down the throat vs. having it sloshing around your mouth before you spit.
...as you're getting ready to bust; just put your hand on the back of her head, and hold her there till she does...swallow or breathe; take your pick/
obviously...you've never performed cunnilingus AFTER you've fucked her... she should sue you for short-changing her all this time!
Geez, undefeated. You don't have to call some of our best products 'crap.' Sort of gives us a view of your puritan side, eh boy? And, jazzfiend, if you're looking for sympathy - look elsewhere. My first reaction was, Oooh, poor boy! Then I thought, get another girlfriend. Do you make a point of swallowing her juices? Have you even ever eaten her out to orgasm?
She doesn't swallow cos she doesn't like the texture, and I can't reciprocate cos she doesn't like the feeling of a tongue on her pussy. Nothing to do with the taste, I've always been aware that pineapple juice helps, but to make it less sticky, I'm just drinking more water. Getting some tomorrow, so we'll see.