the sexy sexy dready thready

more pictures we need to get back on track

 

How did you know what you wanted? Did your guy tell you exaclty how he felt?

Mine is saying atm he can't put his feelings into words atm, whicih tells me it isnt good

 

Can I just say thanks guys, I've never had this much support before, and its awesome to have people with the same experience *hugs*

 

ehh ok here's a picture since i helped derail this thread.

that was 2 weeks ago, my dreads have progressed a lot since then, they are on shrink mode now.... i have a boobie picture too but for some reason i'm embarrassed to post it in this thread

 

honestly dragon,... I think you should just see.... if you even had the slight thought that you might be lesbian, I think for you need to explore that. I think you feel guilty because you really do love your boy and are afraid of hurting him. I think its much more respectful to you, him and the relationship as a whole to really know that he is what you want and nothing else... Imagine you do fall in love and want to be with a girl... wouldn't you want to know about that now, instead of hurting your boy years down the road.
Like Amara said to mandy.... you're not happy because you;re not following your heart.

 

ee that's hard. how long has he known you're bi?

at first i would just mention it, and he would wonder if i really was since i barely mentioned it... and then one time we were hanging with friends drinking and he was preoccupied and i went off with this one lez i had mentioned to him i kinda liked... and then later i was all like ooo shit... what do i say... but i was just like "uh.. she went down on me" and he was like... "uuuuhh.... ok cool!" kinda shocked but obviously happy that i was happy.

 

lol... and damn Zilla...

far from anything like that... but this was just minutes ago... on the webcam

 

alright zilla! put meaning to the words sexy dready thready. gorgeous, hey to be honest with you that was the first picture that i have ever taken naked...except for my chicken pox picture, haha me standing bare ass nekked on the coffie table covered in calamine lotion yelling "i dont have chicken pops" priceless

 

dragon, maybe we should start a new thread for this, since the sexyness needs to go on for sure.

and mmm zilla thats super hottt! <3 i think if this forum was members only, i'd be a lot more open for picture posting.

 

hooray for webcams!!! half of my pictures are from my cam

 

Nicely put tanna I am afraid of hurting him. I have heard so much about people's thoughts on cheating that I think other pepole would judge me... But I see my exploring as a healthy thing, but I don't know how my bf feels about it

 

words of wisdom.
you may just be bicurious, you may like the idea of it or you may be really bi/lesbian. but you will never know if you don't try. don't go through your life in denial. if your bf wants whats best for you he will eventually come through.. it's hard not to be selfish though, and he is obviously afraid of allowing that much freedom. just make him realize that you love him deeply and no woman could change that

 

yeah beth thats what i was thinking i mean if someone scrolled through these pictures and saw my very naked white body and put it up somewhere that would be kind of odd

 

haha hax i love your pictures. you seem like loads of fun.

tanna, the pics you recently posted in the body shot thread were freaking sexy. and i am so envious of your amazing fat dreads!

and faery... all i can say is i totally agree.

 

cheating is done surreptitiously... so if he were ok with it it's def not cheating. polyamory can be a wonderful thing, but it's hard to break into since we're conditioned our whole lives to think that we're supposed to spend our married lives with one man, faithfully standing by his side through thick and thin *gags* lol

 

Thanks guys Awesome pics btw

Ok just got some words out of the bf He says after I try exploring he fears I may never want to go back to men or him especially... and he is afraid he is holding me back. Now he is pissed off its all over a forum

Gr..

 

aww thank you zilla...

my idea of a fun time can consist of a few things

1) sitting around the camp fire with a few buddies, grilling up steaks and sipping good beer

2) getting drunk in public off rum and coke, wander up and down a busy city street with friends while giving everyone i pass high fives and spending 20 mins trying to convince a homeless guy to get a job

3) a day of snowboarding or at the beach

 

Yea I see how you mean when you say its hard to break into.

*Sigh*

 

eh we keep everything we say in here to ourselves, you guys are my online i can tell anything buddies i know i could talk to any of you about anything and i wouldnt be judged

 

i knew that was it... tell him you've never been with a girl and want to know what it's like, and that it's not going to change the way you feel about him... it's more like skydiving for the first time lol.

just make it clear that you love him and that love is very different than sexuality. that is a big step in a relationship, not just for bicurious issues but for jealousy issues as well. it's not gonna happen overnight, though.