non-toking boyfriend

Discussion in 'Stoners Lounge' started by LoveDaisy, Mar 21, 2009.

  1. LoveDaisy

    LoveDaisy Member

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    Would you have a problem with your partner not smoking weed?
    I don't resent him for it or anything, I just wish he did... :rolleyes:

    He is however becoming more open minded to it, the problem is, he used to do it and he can't handle it anymore.... I've seen it, it's kind of pathetic haha, he just wants to go to bed... but he was drinking, so I'm going to try to get him to smoke up while not drinking... after that, I guess I'll just have to accept it, I love him too much to get rid of him over it:tongue:<3
     
  2. captainanarchy

    captainanarchy not now, not eva'

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    at least hes not making you quit. that would be a real tough choice haha
     
  3. Captain Cannabis

    Captain Cannabis Banned

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    I'm sure he'd understand.......:rolleyes:

    Just tell him he will be rewarded with sex if he tokes. :hat:
     
  4. Chronic_Glass_Masta

    Chronic_Glass_Masta I like turtles

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  5. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    I had a boyfriend whom I introduced to weed. Then he became a fiend, joined a frat, and partied his way through... well, part of college. I'm pretty certain that I corrupted him. But he wanted to be corrupted.

    Anyhow, be respectful of his choice. Don't pressure him to do it. Some people don't like doing it in front of other people, and you need to respect both your man and his choices.
     
  6. WanderingturnupII

    WanderingturnupII Grouchy Old Fart

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    So, this bro of mine, who didn't smoke, was seeing this woman who did, and she always ended up smoking my pot whenever I'd see him....it got to be some high maintenance costs for some other guy's woman.

    If this gets to be anything like a serious relationship, you're not stepping out of line by expecting him to help keep you in pot. Especially when you're having your period.

    And I had a friend....call him my foster grandfather, he was my mom's age...he died a few years ago...who was just like your b/f when he smoked, it put him to sleep. And that was the only time he would smoke, was when he was having a hard time getting to sleep. Some folks just be's that way.
     
  7. broony

    broony Banned

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    i dont have a problem. its when they complain or say shit that always leads your thought to the fact they dont want you to smoke.

    i've met lots of chill cool girls who have no problems hanging with daily tokers. some people just can't accept it. but they drink like fish. hehe
     
  8. Reefer Rogue

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    i want a girl that blazes because i like people who are tolerant and non judgemental. my ex didn't blaze and she resented me for blazing. fuck her. damn she was hot tho.
     
  9. I can't stop smiling

    I can't stop smiling Member

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    I think that you should make a compromise.
    He can choose something new for you to experience that you wouldn't usually be into, and in return, you can introduce him to the beautiful green world.
    I agree that he can't fully understand the high obtained from smoking marijuana if he was already drunk the only time that he tried it.
    But either way, he has to be comfortable with it.
    If he does decide to take part, make sure you're in a familiar, positive environment.
    Assure that this time he has a nice experience.
     
  10. Startreken

    Startreken Marijuana Chef!

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    My Fiance smokes but not very often. She says it's mostly about her coughing, she does not like to cough. However, I smoke almost every day. She does not look down on it and is fine with it. I am sure she wishes I did not smoke as much and I wish she smoked more but we love each other. So, it boils down to that for me. She does not judge me or ask me to quit and every once in a while I can get her to eat a special baked good. She does not mind those but she also just likes to go to sleep. The best benifit that she likes is that I tend to get horney when I smoke and she likes that. Good Luck.
     
  11. CircaX43521

    CircaX43521 rat in a drain ditch

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    I would love to have a cute girlfriend that I could just smoke and chill with.
     
  12. fuzz_acid_flowers

    fuzz_acid_flowers Aqueou§ Transmi§§ion

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    My bf smokes more than I do(about everyday)but I have cut down since we started talking.He says he really likes it when we smoke together but I don't think it would bother him too much if I didn't.Vice versa, it wouldn't bother me as long as there still is something else we can bond over lol.if he can't handle it then that's his choice I guess.Hope it works out :)
     
  13. t0ker

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    my girlfriend doesnt smoke and it really isnt an issue? she usually gets me water and snacks for me so it works out nicely.
     
  14. Popularity

    Popularity Senior Member

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    Usually its the girl who won't.

    I guess its ok if your partner doesn't smoke, but thats something that would be a bonus in a girl for me.
     

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