A very personal ? please i need help?

me and my bf of 3 years do anal sex off and on and sometimes it goes really well for me and feels so good and other times its really uncomfortable to do because it burns so much? is there anything that my bf can do or use or me to make anal sex go smoothly every time and so it doesn't ever burn anymore?? the lube we use is KY jelly which i am sure is the reason for the burning at times but why doesnt it burn like that all the time than?? please help!

 

You probably get sore sometimes... That's a sensitive area.

That's why people with hemorrhoids and fissures are so miserable.

 

try another lube...or try to make break of anal for couple of day..and then do it..it shouldnt burn.

 

Interesting, I would stop the KY and use something else. Funny things is when my GF and I do it we usually use spit or her vagina is so wet it lubricates her ass and when it gets a little dry I usually lick the outside of her ass and spit on it also making sure I wet the tip of my dick to and it usually works fine.

 

Why don't you use lube that is made for anal play?

 

Silicone lube FTW.

Shit stays slick FOREVER.

 

It probably has more to do with the state of your mucus membranes throught your cycle. The toughness of that tissue changes over time. If your body pH gets a bit out of whack, either bacteria or fungi get an advantage, and in that case, both vaginal and anal tissue will be easier to damage...burning sensation....It probably has nothing to do with the lube....BTW a gross but awesome lube for this kind of thing is smushed ripe bannannas...seriously!

 

Well my first experience and only with anal I was very intoxicated on xanax seemed to help take the pain away and we used the KY yours and mine that shit was awesome! I hear you are suppose to finger the anal just a little before you go in.

 

Holly Shit....that is the best possible answer your gonna get...haahaha!

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