Casual sex

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by StankyTrees, Oct 30, 2004.

  1. StankyTrees

    StankyTrees Member

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    man everytime im trying to have sex no girls ever want to because they say they dont want to be sluts.and i try explainig its casual sex,but they still refuse.Now i dont think im ugly but i aint the hottest dude u know.I just want to know how many gurls like to have casual sex?man im jus need to get some dude,
     
  2. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    aaah, no, I haven't done casual sex yet. I did go all the way on a third date, that's about as fast as I've moved. Maybe you should try and get a real girlfriend, because once you get to the whole having sex stage, then you get it a lot more regularly than trying to pick up random girls and asking them to fuck you.
     
  3. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    I have a boyfriend now, but I'm Ok with casual sex when I'm single. I don't think it's necessarily a guy approaching a girl and saying "Hey can we fuck?" I mean, if the guy is nice and I'm attracted to him...why not?

    Two people having intercourse is so taboo here in the states. Why? I haven't got a clue...for some reason there is a stigma attached to two people not involved to have sex. As long as you are safe, what's the hurt in having a little fun with someone of like mind? I think sex is a beautiful thing...

    But having someone you're committed to is really kinda nice...you get both an emotional and a physical fulfillment all in one package! What could be better than that?
     
  4. FallenFairy

    FallenFairy Senior Member

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    casual sex is one of the fun things about being single. I mean i had casual sex all the time with different people and well I was being called a slut and im like no its just casual sex so yea .
     
  5. StankyTrees

    StankyTrees Member

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    I mean i just dont go up 2 gurls and ask them to fuck,like some of my close friends.and i have had gf for a long time and it was hard for me when she broke up with me,but ive healed and im just at the stage where i dont want a gf.Damn dancerannie i dont mean 2 sound stupid but how come you are so fuckin hot.damn do u have ne more pics of just urself you are really beatiful i wish i could get up wit gurl like you.but thanks for the info
     
  6. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    I don't know setting myself up to feel abandoned and hurt doesn't sound fun
     
  7. psilonaut

    psilonaut Mushroom Muncher

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    I used to play around with friends of mine all the time... Trust me it gets old after a while. Empty emotionless sex isn't as fun as it sounds
     
  8. Bloody_Kisses

    Bloody_Kisses Thizzler

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    casual sex is fine with me. often i will like a cock but not the guy attatched to it
     
  9. crystalstarr

    crystalstarr Word

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    i agree casual sex can be fun. alot of girls dont like it because true you can be called slut for being invoulded in it.when your a adult though it dosent matter no one uses those stupid "slut " terms anymore. when your a teen the pressure can be hard
     
  10. innocentpoison333

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    Never tried that i dont know if i would or not sounds fun, but i would like to have sex with passion not just for the hell of... I like the thought of being in love or at least in lust ( i mean reeeall lust for someone) i think that would be an enjoyable experience
     
  11. SelfControl

    SelfControl Boned.

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    I can do casual sex fine, but when I go out looking for it I'm quite unnattractive. So it doesn't happen much.
     
  12. sandra d

    sandra d Member

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    i dont want a relationship, so all i do is casual sex.
     
  13. StankyTrees

    StankyTrees Member

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    damn i wish i could get to kno u then
     
  14. Sorrow_Fallen

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    Amen to that. I've been played by too many guys that wanted cas sex and decided it would best to act like they wanted to actually be with me. I'm emotionally so when I have sex with some one I want there to be some sort of actually feeling behind it. So some of the girls you're after Stanky might want more than casual sex as well.
     
  15. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

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    i'm fine with casual sex actually. as long as the guy is mature and is not involved in a any kind of relationship with anyone.
     
  16. Mustafa Chris

    Mustafa Chris Member

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    Ive had quite a few girls ask me for casual sex, but most of them were kinda weird I thought.
     
  17. AutumnAuburn

    AutumnAuburn Senior Member

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    Sex can kill ya, nowadays... So, I'm scared into not having casual sex anymore... If HIV wasn't out there, though, it would be fun, like it used to be... :)
     
  18. PeachesScreams

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    A slut reputation is something in high school, once you are out nobody really cares. Its my body to enjoy, I've had casual sex and sometimes is great other times it was a let down. Be safe, be happy, Carpe Orgasm!
     
  19. pandiebeer

    pandiebeer Member

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  20. missfontella

    missfontella Mama of Da Assassins

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    I am having this same debate with myself right now..........so I'm no help
     

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