Convince Parents To Let Me Smoke?

I know I could search for this, but I want to let you guys know how I have it and then see what you say.

Basically, I think the reason I smoke is because I have nothing else to do with my time. In middle school, I had couple of friends in each class to talk to. Over the years, it just ended up being that our paths never crossed at school, and I never had any classes with those people.

I'm a freshman in highschool now, and I have at the most, if even, 5 people that I can actually consider my friend. Like people that I actually hang out with and stuff. And with those friends, I barely ever even hang out with them. probably about 90 to 95 % of the weekends, I just sit in my room on my computer. And if I don't hang out on weekends, I obviously don't hang out on weekdays.

So my friend asked me if I wanted to try smoking one time, and I did, and then I kept doing it with him, every once in a while. Now I do it all the time, and it is great. Unfortunately, my parents don't approve(go figure). I have been caught for my 2nd time just a couple of days ago.

With my bad life, I have even thought about running away(for partly for this, partly for other reasons) and committing suicide(to the point where if I could do it easy and painless, I would have already done it).

Basically what I'm saying is smoking weed is giving me more friends and giving me a better life. But since my parents don't approve, it doesn't really work out.

And I'm not sure if I could convince my parents(or at least my mom) because my mom's friend that she knew since she was very young has smoked for like 20 years and I think she stopped now but her life is like all screwed up, so I don't think I could ever convince my mom.

But idk what do you guys think I could do?

 

yeah, you're fucked on the weed front.

i suggest getting a job or finding a hobby that you enjoy to fill up your empty time

 

this was as far as i read, and my immediate advice is to stop smoking right now, read every book you get your hand on, and then start smoking when you get to college.

then your parents would approve.

considering you'll have applied yourself, done well, gained some true life experience, and paved your way to experiment freely.

i know all the logic doesn't follow, exactly, in this reply, but trust me, it's there.

 

^ i'd just like you to know that i chuckle a little bit every time i see your sig.

 

good. it was intentional.

 

:cheers2:

 

X2

 

my life is complete. i have amused the internet.

 

^yeah.

i wish i could complete that goal. you must tell me your secret

 

it's being me.

 

that's just like me, but my moms a lot better than my dad. i suggest you get good grades in school, stay out of trouble and show them you're responsible, that's what i did and my mom doesn't really care like she did. she still isn't "feel free to light one up!" but shes more lenient. the chances your parents will actually allow you to smoke weed is slim to none, i've figured that out. you'll just have to prove to them, and in the meantime keep your stash hidden.

 

You could stop acting like a little kid and face that not everyone is going to like marijuana.

Running away is pointless and suicide is for pussies man.

 

I was about to say that, go be good at a sport and get good grades.

 

keep smoking anyway, definately don't commit suicide, you may not be happy now but you can change that. try and get a g/f or make some new friends or jus hang out with them more.

 

Wanna come live in a well? I've got lots of lotion.

 

Yeah man theres no reason to stop smoking, but just cause your parents dont approve of it (my parents definitely dont) doesnt mean anything, you can still smoke weed under the radar, you just have to be a little more careful. Im in the exact situation as you are, barely any friends and i just sit at home all day on the computer, just realize that once you move out and get your life on track then things will be a lot better, the best you can do right now is just ride it out and try to make the best of it. But man suicide isnt for minor stuff like that, one day this all wont matter, suicide would be very stupid. And what do you think running away will do, your like will suck even more and thats when you will be considering suicide.

 

And don't smoke in the house if they don't want you to, it's their house.

 

you know it.

 

LOL.

as if that stops anyone

 

lol :cheers2: