Weird Anal Sex Problem

Hello all

My girl friend and I have been trying anal sex a couple of times and have had issues with her loosing total feeling in her clit and ass. If i stick my finger in her ass she is fine and says everything feels great. But when I go to stick my cock in her ass and start to fuck her she totally looses all feeling down there and cannot reach an orgasm anally or by playing with her clit. She says she doesnt feel a thing.

Does anyone know whats up with this?

Thanks

 

take her to a doctor, that sounds terminal

 

Certainly we know what it is....You would too, if you weren't so hard up for new adventures. She doesn't like anal screwing, her mind is rebelling - and your days with her are about done. If the finger wave isn't enough for you, better get a new woman. Send her to me!

 

I'm thinking it is something with her mind too. She said she has had some issue with sex related things in the past and to be patient with her but I dont know....

 

Fastswitch has already put it bluntly: she might not really like to be fucked in the ass - that simple

 

I agree, she's probably just not that into anal, at least it doesn't hurt her.

If you still want to do anal, I would suggest that you really pay attention to her pussy, and try to pleasure her vaginally before you go to anal. Make her cum via oral or vag intercourse, then finish in her ass.

You can also try stimulating her to orgasm and then penetrating her in the ass right when she begins to cum. My gf loves that, I have to admit I like it too, because I love to hear her say "stick it up my ass I'm about to cum." It's makes me cum so hard when we do that.

If that doesn't work, then anal is pretty much the same as a her giving you a blow job, return the favor to her by eating her out reallly good.

Me and my gf do anal instead of blow jobs. I'm not really into blow jobs that much, because I like the feeling of penetration all the way to my balls, and my gf can't deep throat, so I just stick it deep in her butt.

 

My gf can have multipule orgasams. She can go on and on and on and on. Its really awesome. I make sure she has had about 15 or so orgasams before i would start to fuck her ass!

But anyways we had anal sex again last night and sure enough I fucked her for about 5 minutes in her ass and still she didnt feel a thing. We went to the sex store today and got a small vibrator so Im gonna try that on her clit and see we can get something going. Its not like she is saying no to me when I do it. I just think I need to get her comfortable with the whole idea. Like I said she likes my finger in her ass and enjoys that quite well but once I go with my cock it like it shuts down. It really fucked up!!!!!!!

Thanks for the suggestions!

 

This may be way off, but what about a nerve acting weird, numbing everything? Are you using numbing lube?

 

may not be way off, those things that help delay ejaculation, are all about numbing

so if you gave it to her on her front side, and youre not using a condom, it very well may be the case

if not, youre screwed, cause anal stimulation shouldnt have an effect on the genital, are separate and independent organs and nerves

 

No numbing things are being used. Its still weird. She like my finger in her ass great but once I'm in her ass with my cock she looses the sensation.

We have sex everyday and I am always down there playing in her ass trying to get her to be totally comfortable with that region. They joys of it all! LOL

 

I have a friend, his finger is longer than his penis. well, he's very fat though.

 

have you ever tried doing anything with her anally? If she truly does like it then eventually she may crave it enough. idk like you said weird problem may need a weird solution... just throwing it out there.

 

Yes, we have anal sex a couple of times a week but the problem is she feels nothing. Its fucked up!

 

My opinion is, if she can't feel anything, then whats the point of still doing it? You can try the clit ring or whatever, but if that doesn't help, then I wouldn't know what else would.

 

Dude i think u gota defective woman. Is she still under warranty u may want to take her back. Ok that was probly a bad joke but whatever. In all seriousnress maybe she should talk to a doctor. There may be something more serious that the two of u arent seeing. It sounds like she trusts u a lot if she is willing to tell u somtething like that so u probly have a pretty good relationship. But really that doesnt sound normal. Ur nerves shouldnt just stop working based on what is touching u. Idk thats my honest opinion and good luck with whatever path u take. Keep posting

 

It does seem rather strange and some what serious. I don't think a doctor could explain a mental block, unless there is something physiologically wrong with her body, then maybe, even then, I doubt her insurance would cover a surgery for her to enjoy anal sex.

Maybe she was anally raped as a child, and as a result, she learned to turn her ass nerves off during anal, to shield her self from the pain, it a coping mechanism, I'm not saying this happned, but you may want to ask her.

Personally, as long as it's not hurting her, and you get her off first, it's not THAT big of a problem. It's just like a blow job then, tons of women enjoy giving a good bj even though it doesn't stimulate a woman to orgasm.

I would suggest asking her about her sexual past in reference to anal. Secondly I would just make sure and not do anal too much as you don't want to seem like a selfish prick. Do it every now and then, but make sure and do something special for her first, that was it's equal.

 

Off topic: Has anybody else skimmed the forums and accidentally read this thread title as
"Wierd Al Sex Problem"

or is that just me *shifty eyes*

 

It does seem rather strange and some what serious. I don't think a doctor could explain a mental block, unless there is something physiologically wrong with her body, then maybe, even then, I doubt her insurance would cover a surgery for her to enjoy anal sex.

Maybe she was anally raped as a child, and as a result, she learned to turn her ass nerves off during anal, to shield her self from the pain, it a coping mechanism, I'm not saying this happned, but you may want to ask her.

Personally, as long as it's not hurting her, and you get her off first, it's not THAT big of a problem. It's just like a blow job then, tons of women enjoy giving a good bj even though it doesn't stimulate a woman to orgasm.

I would suggest asking her about her sexual past in reference to anal. Secondly I would just make sure and not do anal too much as you don't want to seem like a selfish prick. Do it every now and then, but make sure and do something special for her first, that way it's equal.

 

you're going about it all wrong, she says no feeling eh ??? then try this, go to the sex store and buy one of those really big kong dongs and stick that up her ass. ill bet you she wont be saying this I'm numb shit anymore.

 

have you ever considered your dick may be smaller than your finger cuz you say she feels your finger.